I've come to the realization that love comes only once in your life and all that other stuff is infatuation. I once thought I was in love with this guy only to find out I really couldn't stand him. He was a very selfish person and very violent and felt as though things had to be done or seen his way if not then it just wasn't right. I had hoped that one day I could change him but i realize that you can't change a jackass into a stallion. But I've found what I consider to be my ultimate soulmate he understands me, he loves me, he satisfies my every need without me having to ask. Sometimes I wish we were together all the time but I know that day will come eventually and when it does like he tells me all the time I'm going to be in heaven and I refuse to let him go. So when you find the type of love that over rules all boundaries make sure you hold on to it no matter what your family or friends say. As long as he or she is treating you right there is no reason why you shouldn't fight for your love. But make sure it's love and a clear way of knowing that it's love is if you mention that person name and you can't help but to smile then you know it's love or if you think about that person and glow with happiness with just the thought of them then you're definitely in love so hold on to it and don't let go!
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