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Deep into that darkness beering
Long I stood there
Wondering
Fearing
Doubting
Dreaming dreams no mortal ever dared to dream before
But the darkness was unbroken
And the stillness gave no taken
And the only word spoken
Was the whispered word……..



The way females should be treated

Women want to be appreciated for more than their looks, they are people too and that’s how they should be treated. They want to feel welcome and warm when near you and know that you will always be there for them. They want to know that they can tell you anything they want and just keep it between you. They also like to be held and cuddled with, it is not all about actions….its just knowing you are there for them through it all.

Girls want to know you love them that is why if you do love someone you need to tell them you love them as much as possible so they understand you true feelings towards them.
Girls don’t like to argue…. But certain things do tick them off, that’s why you stand by their sides calming them and explaining them as much as possible…and once again, comforting then to know that you are always there. The way you talk to girls and the way you react to what they say means a lot to them…. See…girls don’t want to be seen as objects, you must treat them like a princess…or the angels they truly are.

Im mainly just stating that for all the ladies out there, there are still good guys out there in the world, so don’t give up and don’t fail for every pervert there is. Also this is meant for me to show how understanding I am for most girls. I understand that women also like to just hang out with the guys, but I’m talking about the basics between acting towards them and acting like a pervert jack a**. Mainly just knowing that you there for the girl and her knowing how much she means to you is how you should act to her. Friends or a relationship…either way you treat her with respect other wise they will never respect or like you.

This is a tip for guys how to treat girls

Every girl is different, so not everything you do for one girl will necessarily flatter another. But there are some general things you can do to show a girl that you care. Remember that most of all, a girl wants to be appreciated. The more genuine and specific you are, the better will be. Compliment her. Say that her hair looks nice or she has a pretty shirt on, and mean it….don’t sit there and lie about it. Tell her she is pretty…say “you have got the most beautiful eyes/hair/skin/hands/etc. I have ever seen”. Be a gentleman about it don’t treat her like trash. You need to be a good listener, to know how they feel.
They need someone who will patiently listen and understand them. There is a HUGE different between “hearing” and “listening” so make sure you don’t just “hear” her. Pay close attention to what she is saying and really “listen” to her from you heart. Be truthful, there is no need to lie, girls usually find it out so easy when you are lying. Do things that she wants, make her feel comfortable. If a girl is upset with you, listen to her and try to fix things, just try to compromise. If she tell you about the problem, don’t try to fix it. Just listen to her. If you exaggerate your compliments or are insincere, people can usually see through that, no one likes a suck-up. First you have to actually likes girls as an equals…..treat women with respect, not just respect because they are pretty things, but because they actually have something to offer you and talk about that is her heart and her love, they are like diamonds in the world that every day is passing is becoming more hard and with wars in anywhere, girls are not toys, they are the person you will love forever and if you find the one, that person will be your heart, soul, mind. Also you can think about her and just her, dreams with her, etc. so guys if you find the person you love, don’t leave her go, because we just have one life and is horrible to have this life if you cant be with the person you love so much. And girls, if you find the guy you like, don’t let him go too, because is painful to live without the guy you dream or you want to be, I hope this make you think about this and to do something