2/14
Do you believe that everyone in this world has a soul mate? Or is true love less romantic than that?
I really don’t know. Sometimes I think that everyone does have a soul mate. But sometimes I think that there is no such thing as a soul mate. Right now though, I think that only a select few people have real soul mates.
When I say a select few, I mean people with certain standards. I think that good people who rarely ever do the wrong thing are these few. When you are as nice as nice can be, its hard for people to not like you. And these qualities attract people with the same qualities. So when you are surrounded by people who make the same decisions and like most of the same stuff as you, it is kinda easy to find someone to love.
But if you are a really mean and bitter person, it’s a whole different story. Being bitter only pushes people away and makes others avoid you. The only people who are near you are other bitter people. And if you get into a relationship with a bitter person, then the relationship is bitter.
But I’m not saying that mean people can’t find true love. I’m saying that it will be really hard. The only thing that might cause them to find true love, is love. Like say that a bitter person met a really nice boy/girl and really likes them. That person would have to make a full 180 in order to even be noticed by the person.
I wish that every person that was mean and selfish had a person in their life that made them want to be nice and selfless. But maybe that’s what true love is. Maybe true love is a love so great for someone that it makes you want to be better, to exceed your crushes expectations. Maybe everyone does have someone that will do this for them but either hasn’t found them, or is unwilling to change.
Whether or not this is true, I still believe it should be. If this was the case and the people were willing to change, the world might just be a better place. But most people are unwilling to change because of either customs or just growing used to who they are. Us high schoolers don’t change mostly because of peer pressure. But all should try to find someone they would change their whole life for the better for.