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Report | 01/26/2009 7:35 am

yeah that can do it, the weather and stress. just take it easy, eat/drink some soup and you should be fine. I CAN ALWAYS COME OVER AND MAKE SOME SOUP ^^. i kid. really i just take a can of progresoo chicken noodle, add some more chick and maybe some celery and inhale it all. -nodds- i know, trust me i know fully. i havnt had a date in a while, let alone find anyone close to my true love. some have come close on gaia, but im very weary of meeting people for real. not that i think they are lying alot, just i know ive stretched a few facts on my end and i know how easy it is to do. Just take it easy and keep physcial, mentally and all around healthy. dont rush it, something that good as your romeo cant be rushed, lest you hurt yourself with some a**

Report | 01/22/2009 3:32 pm

Erik_Deadman

yeah. Rev is one of my fav books too, but still its kinda like reading the end of a book, sometimes i like to read the middle parts too XD. but if your feeling better, then that is GREAT and a good thing. you should feel better, WE ALL SHOULD!

Report | 01/22/2009 10:21 am

Erik_Deadman

O.O -smiles a bit and gives you a hug- dont be too disapointed if you cant find a good one. ive had friends live in various areas that said they had churches that sucked. didnt do this or that, or focued on the wrath of God and not on the goodness of him, or vice-vrica. Something i would adivse to do is simply find a time during the day and read the bible. doesnt have to be anything in particualr. on my worst days ive found that Job is a good book, thats me though.

Report | 01/21/2009 12:02 pm

Erik_Deadman

-smiles and hugs back- I do mean it, anytime you wana unload on me; though you might feel safer with the idea of writing it on paper and then destroying it with like a shredder or fireplace. Listen, we all have at some points shitty points, but its good to have people around you to help you along your way, but if for some reason I've left gaia or something, please don’t even consider suicide, let alone even think about giving up. You have a lot to live for. what/who? YOU!!! XD live for yourself and be happy, though I hope you wont be angry with me for brining it up, but you might wana consider looking at a church or something. Yes I am a Christian but even if your not, find a church or organization, and if it’s a good one, you can find someone to talk to. I want you to be happy, happy being alive.

Report | 01/16/2009 11:10 am

Erik_Deadman

its okay, get it off your chest. scream, yell, get it off your chest. i tried bottling up my feelings once and i nearly did a terrible thing. well i couldnt have followed through with it casue i didnt have the tool but still i shouldnt have said it. So let it out on me if you want to. send me a pm that lets it all out if you want. ive tried that, well writing a letter like to a person then DONT SEND IT. but getting it on paper, makes you feel better. i really dont want you to take your life minami, please dont

Report | 01/15/2009 5:32 pm

Fairy Fox

I'm so sorry to hear you lost your grandma. I know how tough that is. I lost my grandma 2 years ago, and I was pregnant with her first great-grandchild. I'm also sorry about you losing your friends. That sucks too. If you need to talk, send me a PM. As for me, I'm really busy lately. I'm chasing a toddler all over. (Who doesn't want to listen) I haven't gotten out much. It sucks. Plus, it's frigid outside. Our high temperature for the day was -4 degrees.

Report | 01/15/2009 8:37 am

Erik_Deadman

Oh Minami -gives you a hug- that sucks, im sorry you lost her. it sounds like you were closer to her than i was to my own. she, well more her husband, never liked my dad cause he took her away from them, really the best thing other family members told my parents. still when she died i was sad. through all the bad and good she was my grandmother and she was family. i know she liked my dad more than my grandfather but still hes nearing his end and i will miss him to. and im glad you have me and Kandi to talk to, i wish you and your family the best.

Report | 01/13/2009 2:06 pm

kandikornikopia

Aww, I'm sorry to hear about your grandma and that you life is so off right now! You didn't scare me about death. The first death i ever had to experience was when I was 15 and the little boy i babysat for, he was 7, died in a dirt bike accident. The second was my best friends dad who committed suicide. Now I just found out yesterday that a co-worker/friend of mine when I was an RA in college committed suicide last week. Its been rough. Death isn't easy, and if you loved your grandma, then its going to take some time to get over. As for everything else...just keep your chin up. People come in go in our lives at different times for different reasons. I think it is naive to believe that friendships are forever. People change, and if people change into people you aren't compatible with, there is nothing wrong with letting them go. Doesn't mean they didn't serve an important purpose while they WERE in your life. I think you'll be fine. Nothing a little bit of time and living life can't fix! Plus, ya always got me to vent too! I've been through all sorts of experiences. Not much you can throw at me that i haven't dipped my toes into a bit! haha!

XoKandiXo

Report | 01/13/2009 1:52 pm

kandikornikopia

*gasp* your online! Haven't heard from you in a while...how are things? How was your New Year?

XoKandiXo

Report | 01/09/2009 8:04 am

Erik_Deadman

-nodds- yeah thats true, but i dont think my bro and his wife have that kinda problem.

Oh Minami, im sorry to hear that. My grandmother is real strong by all of her sons, except my dad, treat her really poorly and have basicly 'locked' her up in her house where she cant go out or anything. My dad seriously wants to go bust thier heads in but to get there is nearly impossible, we doubt she will make it this year, but we hope she does. Hahaa, yes make new friends, that is always a good goal. Eh it depends on how goth you are, and ive learned that some goths are too wierd but some 'norms' are just as if not weirder. so be how you wana be but also strive to be better than you are and you will do fine

Report | 01/06/2009 7:58 am

Erik_Deadman

thats cool. we learned on Christmas day that my bro and his wife are gona have another kid. though i think its rushing it, they already have a 1yearold, 5yearold, nearly brand new car AND a new house. with his job on the edge, might loose it, i think its too soon for another tike.

Report | 01/02/2009 8:33 am

Erik_Deadman

well i hope the new year will be better than the last -huggs-

Report | 12/19/2008 1:07 pm

Erik_Deadman

so whats going on with you? anything good or cool? or are you just... you.?

Report | 12/19/2008 9:06 am

Erik_Deadman

well i do think 17 is a bit young, but if she and the guy really wana make it work, along with their kid, then more power to them. i hope it does work out. Glad you sticking by her, shows your a truly good friend. hope her b-day was good

Report | 12/13/2008 8:37 am

Erik_Deadman

O.O -blinks- wow, i think i actually got that XD. well it sounds like you choose wisely. and that the others are real bitchy people. is your new 'bestie' okay?

Report | 12/12/2008 8:57 am

Erik_Deadman

wow, yeah its not good to fight with a pregnant woman. though if she was the one who started it, i might be able to understand you other friend. still I would walk away and NOT fight. has it turned out okay?

Im living too, bored but alive. so i cant complain MUCH. helping some people move, so its a bit much too

Report | 12/11/2008 8:44 am

stephanopolous

lol yup i am ********

Report | 12/11/2008 5:14 am

stephanopolous

ogr i feel for you i am ******** i have not gone to class in 5 weeks v_v

Report | 12/10/2008 10:21 am

stephanopolous

why thanks you how are you doing lov ^ ^

Report | 12/09/2008 12:23 pm

stephanopolous

sleepy trying to keep my self up on tektek

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