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 Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 11:16 am
Mendele Twilight Bearer Mendele you get rid of your shadow self by embracing it, the only way to kill the shadow is to heal it, it's a manifestation of ones own energies. I get what you're saying, you sure speak clear, i think you just like to speak a lot of words xd I do the same thing in pms sometimes or posts i'll just ramble. then not really get to the point until the end of it. But you don't get rid of it at all... When the part of you that has been misunderstood becomes understand, it does not go away. When you own up to what you once denied, it does not dissappear. It does cease to be a shadow, but it is still there, and still a part of you. It is more about becoming comfortable with yourself, and learning to use all of the abilities and faculties you've been granted... And yeah, I can be really long winded at times. yeah exactly, like it's shadow energy instead of a shadow being but all within your control. heh, look at a few of my posts and threads, i can be long winded too, usually when i'm ticked and wanna vent Or when you're high.
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Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 11:19 am
Milendil Mendele Twilight Bearer Mendele you get rid of your shadow self by embracing it, the only way to kill the shadow is to heal it, it's a manifestation of ones own energies. I get what you're saying, you sure speak clear, i think you just like to speak a lot of words xd I do the same thing in pms sometimes or posts i'll just ramble. then not really get to the point until the end of it. But you don't get rid of it at all... When the part of you that has been misunderstood becomes understand, it does not go away. When you own up to what you once denied, it does not dissappear. It does cease to be a shadow, but it is still there, and still a part of you. It is more about becoming comfortable with yourself, and learning to use all of the abilities and faculties you've been granted... And yeah, I can be really long winded at times. yeah exactly, like it's shadow energy instead of a shadow being but all within your control. heh, look at a few of my posts and threads, i can be long winded too, usually when i'm ticked and wanna vent Or when you're high. lol, i guess i sort of forgot that one. xd
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Posted: Thu Jan 03, 2008 4:24 am
Milendil Twilight Bearer Mendele you get rid of your shadow self by embracing it, the only way to kill the shadow is to heal it, it's a manifestation of ones own energies. I get what you're saying, you sure speak clear, i think you just like to speak a lot of words xd I do the same thing in pms sometimes or posts i'll just ramble. then not really get to the point until the end of it. But you don't get rid of it at all... When the part of you that has been misunderstood becomes understand, it does not go away. When you own up to what you once denied, it does not dissappear. It does cease to be a shadow, but it is still there, and still a part of you. It is more about becoming comfortable with yourself, and learning to use all of the abilities and faculties you've been granted... And yeah, I can be really long winded at times. But see, that's what he meant. You both are saying the same thing, just in different ways/ideas. Yeah, but I feel that it is very important to emphasis that nothing is being gotten rid of. It is more like your personal relationship with a part of yourself changes. I've seen and known people to try and hack themselves up in an attempt to throw thier shadow in the garbage... It just doesn't work, and I really prefer not to watch the attempt, either. 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Jan 03, 2008 10:31 am
Twilight Bearer Milendil Twilight Bearer Mendele you get rid of your shadow self by embracing it, the only way to kill the shadow is to heal it, it's a manifestation of ones own energies. I get what you're saying, you sure speak clear, i think you just like to speak a lot of words xd I do the same thing in pms sometimes or posts i'll just ramble. then not really get to the point until the end of it. But you don't get rid of it at all... When the part of you that has been misunderstood becomes understand, it does not go away. When you own up to what you once denied, it does not dissappear. It does cease to be a shadow, but it is still there, and still a part of you. It is more about becoming comfortable with yourself, and learning to use all of the abilities and faculties you've been granted... And yeah, I can be really long winded at times. But see, that's what he meant. You both are saying the same thing, just in different ways/ideas. Yeah, but I feel that it is very important to emphasis that nothing is being gotten rid of. It is more like your personal relationship with a part of yourself changes. I've seen and known people to try and hack themselves up in an attempt to throw thier shadow in the garbage... It just doesn't work, and I really prefer not to watch the attempt, either. 3nodding i agree with you on that one, it;s more absorb, feel, move on
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Posted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 9:55 pm
I don't see you as much of a b***h.
Well, I don't know about all of this higher self deal, but I know I can be a judgmental analyzing b***h who thinks lowly of most people.
I usually think I'm right and everyone else is wrong most of the time.
I'm self centered.
for me, I go first. Unless there is someone who means a lot to me.
those are few people.
I'm exaggerative,
sometimes I lie without meaning to,
I'm a thief, I talk too much,
I have anger issues. I take my anger out on anyone [unless it's someone dear to me]
If I don't like someone, they really don't want to be around me, because I can be a complete and total b***h.
Sometimes, I think I'm better than others,
and I pick out peoples flaws and rant about them to the point of convincing other people to think the same.
of course, it goes away once they're around that person again, that is, if they liked the person to begin with.
I can set people against someone simply because I don't like that person.
Doesn't bother me, though.
BUT,
I can be a very loving and caring person.
I'll still shove it in your face if something bothers me about you, though.
Or if you do something that gets to me.
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Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 6:48 pm
ThatOnePersonZere I don't see you as much of a b***h. Well, I don't know about all of this higher self deal, but I know I can be a judgmental analyzing b***h who thinks lowly of most people. I usually think I'm right and everyone else is wrong most of the time. I'm self centered. for me, I go first. Unless there is someone who means a lot to me. those are few people. I'm exaggerative, sometimes I lie without meaning to, I'm a thief, I talk too much, I have anger issues. I take my anger out on anyone [unless it's someone dear to me] If I don't like someone, they really don't want to be around me, because I can be a complete and total b***h. Sometimes, I think I'm better than others, and I pick out peoples flaws and rant about them to the point of convincing other people to think the same. of course, it goes away once they're around that person again, that is, if they liked the person to begin with. I can set people against someone simply because I don't like that person. Doesn't bother me, though. BUT, I can be a very loving and caring person. I'll still shove it in your face if something bothers me about you, though. Or if you do something that gets to me. Have you ever tried the mirror excercise? You see, there's this theory in psychology that people 'project' thier qualities on to others, that what we like and dislike about those around us is likewise what we like and dislike about ourselves... The excercise to sit down and make lists of what you do and do not like about an individual, and than turn those lists into statements about yourself. You'd be suprised what this little excercise can teach you 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 2:00 pm
Twilight Bearer ThatOnePersonZere I don't see you as much of a b***h. Well, I don't know about all of this higher self deal, but I know I can be a judgmental analyzing b***h who thinks lowly of most people. I usually think I'm right and everyone else is wrong most of the time. I'm self centered. for me, I go first. Unless there is someone who means a lot to me. those are few people. I'm exaggerative, sometimes I lie without meaning to, I'm a thief, I talk too much, I have anger issues. I take my anger out on anyone [unless it's someone dear to me] If I don't like someone, they really don't want to be around me, because I can be a complete and total b***h. Sometimes, I think I'm better than others, and I pick out peoples flaws and rant about them to the point of convincing other people to think the same. of course, it goes away once they're around that person again, that is, if they liked the person to begin with. I can set people against someone simply because I don't like that person. Doesn't bother me, though. BUT, I can be a very loving and caring person. I'll still shove it in your face if something bothers me about you, though. Or if you do something that gets to me. Have you ever tried the mirror excercise? You see, there's this theory in psychology that people 'project' thier qualities on to others, that what we like and dislike about those around us is likewise what we like and dislike about ourselves... The excercise to sit down and make lists of what you do and do not like about an individual, and than turn those lists into statements about yourself. You'd be suprised what this little excercise can teach you 3nodding I don't need to. I already knew all of that. I think psychology is a load of bull. anything I've heard about with psychology are things you can figure out on your own.
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Posted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 6:47 am
ThatOnePersonZere Twilight Bearer ThatOnePersonZere I don't see you as much of a b***h. Well, I don't know about all of this higher self deal, but I know I can be a judgmental analyzing b***h who thinks lowly of most people. I usually think I'm right and everyone else is wrong most of the time. I'm self centered. for me, I go first. Unless there is someone who means a lot to me. those are few people. I'm exaggerative, sometimes I lie without meaning to, I'm a thief, I talk too much, I have anger issues. I take my anger out on anyone [unless it's someone dear to me] If I don't like someone, they really don't want to be around me, because I can be a complete and total b***h. Sometimes, I think I'm better than others, and I pick out peoples flaws and rant about them to the point of convincing other people to think the same. of course, it goes away once they're around that person again, that is, if they liked the person to begin with. I can set people against someone simply because I don't like that person. Doesn't bother me, though. BUT, I can be a very loving and caring person. I'll still shove it in your face if something bothers me about you, though. Or if you do something that gets to me. Have you ever tried the mirror excercise? You see, there's this theory in psychology that people 'project' thier qualities on to others, that what we like and dislike about those around us is likewise what we like and dislike about ourselves... The excercise to sit down and make lists of what you do and do not like about an individual, and than turn those lists into statements about yourself. You'd be suprised what this little excercise can teach you 3nodding I don't need to. I already knew all of that. I think psychology is a load of bull. anything I've heard about with psychology are things you can figure out on your own. Oh, there's much more to it than that... Trust me, its my major (and watch it).
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Posted: Thu May 08, 2008 5:33 pm
i am not close to my higher self at all but i hope to get connected...................
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