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Let's see...I have three coming out stories xD

The first person I came out to was my best friend Ria in 10th grade. We shared a locker and one day as we were digging around for textbooks she said "So, I think I'm bi-curious." I said, "Hey, me too! Except for the curious part!"

When I came out to my little sister we were walking down the street and suddenly she yelled "I HAVE SOMETHING TO TELL YOU! I'M BI!" I said "SWEET, ME TOO, HIGH FIVE!"

Coming out to my parents was rather like a SHARPIE commercial. Feel free to skip the next paragraph. xd :

As a bit of a background, I didn't realize I was bi until I was 15, and I panicked about it. My mom was raised in a Mormon household, and had a habit of imparting some of the beliefs to her children, including "homosexuality is wrong" I had joined the high school GSA with the girl the became my first love, and my mother turned to me in the car after pick-up and grilled me about being gay. I denied it, I was in denial myself, but what she told me afterwards really broke me, because we were really close. She turned to me and said "I can work with gay people, fine. I'll even be friends with someone who is gay, but if there was EVER a queer in our family, I don't know what I’d do." and then she cried. So Ifelt completely guilty about my sexuality and tried to deny it. The was a year for self-discovery if there ever was one lol. A year later I came to terms with myself, a year after that I began a slow outing to my close friends, a year and 1/2 after that, the following happened lol


One day, I was browsing a forum (this one in fact,) and decided "F*ck the closet, I’m coming out" so I began writing my mom this big, long winded letter about how it wasn't her fault, but this defiantly wasn't a faze. In the end, however, I ended up crumpling up the letter, busting out a sharpie and writing "Mom I'm Bi" and taping it to her mirror.

Now i identify more as a lesbian, but my mother can hold onto her hope of me one day meeting a "nice young boy and popping out some gran-babbies" for her. xd : it's easier not to try and explain only to change my mind later. heart heart

I took nearly all of 9th grade to realize I was like girls. My story is long... XD

Ok guess I might as well start at the beginning....

Beginning of 9th grade I knew I was at least bi. The school I go to had a major "make over" since it used to be a school no parent wanted to send your kid to; to become the best school in the district that every parent couldn't enroll their kid into fast enough.

Well while I was mesmerized the I bumped into someone and we both fell onto the ground. The person I bumped into was a girl who thought I was a boy. The position we were in was very awkward and perverted from a bystanders point of view. In the end she shouted that I was a pervert in Japanese and slapped me really hard.

After two months of more accidental bumps, falls, yelling, and slapping (Someone must have hated me up there) it finally came to an end. It came to an end because after school one day I was in the girl's locker room changing out of my PE clothes into my everyday clothes when she walked in getting ready for volleyball practice. (Around November)

She screamed realizing I was a girl and not a boy, than couldn't get me out of the locker room fast enough. After that there was no interaction between us. However cruel Fate/Destiny/Karma not only had us in the same class but arranged as photography partners for 2nd semester of school. (Around Mid-January)

Our first assignment was to make a profile of your photography partner so we were obligated to learn about each other. We finished early learning that we had nothing in common. I started to draw than she had a spark of curiosity and decided to learn what I was drawing. From there we started a conversation that involved me explaining why so people were obsessed with anime.

Next day we were more friendly with each other. [Note She has 1st lunch; I have 2nd lunch]. During lunch one of my friends accidentally kicked a soccer ball really hard which hit me in the knee. As I was walking to the nurse's office my leg gave out and I bit my fist to prevent myself from screaming.

Than the last person who I ever would have thought to help me to the nurses' office was her. She was already on her way there so she helped me to the nurses' office. There we continued talking and learning about each other. Than the question popped up. "Do you like someone?" I responded 'yes' and so did she and that's where we left it.

The next couple of weeks my friends found out I actually had a crush on her and pulled an innocent prank on my on Valentine's Day. During 4th period photography class the Honor's Society came in a sang love songs (goes on every year) one was sung for the my photography partner in my name. One was also sang for me in her name as well. Both of us were in total shock not knowing what was going on. We avoided talking to each other for the rest of the day.

After school, I was sullenly hanging on the rail of school's "balcony" when she came up to me looking furious at me. I quickly apologized saying "I had nothing to do with it we were set up!" and I covered my face to prevent myself from being slapped.

She knew we were set up. There we struck a small conversation wondering what we did for what that person we liked for V-Day. There I learned the person she liked was a girl and not a boy. Before she left she gave me back my sketch book that I left behind during 4th period with a sticky note on the cover.

I turned to the page that the sticky note said to turn to to see a drawing that said "I love you, Happy V-Day from Mykio". After reading that I chased after her and than I bumped into her again which caused us to fall to the ground like the first day of school and than we had our first kiss.

We got up from the ground and asked each other "Should we come out?" we both said 'Yes'. Than we shouted down the empty hallways "We're Lesbians!" Only to have one of the teacher's shout back to us "Good for you now go home!"

Mykio and I are still going out to this day. So yeah that's my coming out story. I'm open at school where everyone is actually supportive for any sexual orientation. I'm just not as open on the web though. So this is the first.

Your story is so cute/ funny! I'm glad things worked out for you!

Well actualy when I was 8 ( I've always hated to say this but) I was raped bythis ''boyfriend'' I had -.- So then I hated men for a long time...and started finding a liking to girls. Then I got a lovely boyfriend who I then left...and found the girlfriend I have now smile

We were walking on years at about 12:00 in the streets...holding hands ( doing things we usualy wouldn't do during day) and I guess our mom saw us kissing. She came and talked to me and made me feel bad about it. gonk Worst day of my life! She ignored me for a long time....and is slowly starting to talk to me again.

Pretty sad, and weird i guess eh?


And how we actualy came to become lovers is a very funny story loll

I used to tease her randomly about anime people, and use to pretend to be them. Then slowly, I went further....Licked her ears...kissed her neck. but some weekend she was at my house and she litteraly spoke with her own lips on mine, never wanting to kiss ('cause she was prentending to be some anime character too) but I made her shut up with a kiss. It was my first kiss, with a girl. I was very happy at that moment. :3