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ninjAyeme

PostPosted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 4:02 am


hey everyone!

i'm just gonna let it out to someone who doesn't think I'm wierd.
When I go out and at school I try to act more boyish. I lower my voice purposely and wear the most boyish attire (clothes) I can find in my draws. LOL, one of my sister's guy friends thought I looked like a guy. I really liked that comment, I took it as a compliment.
But at school, my friend gets the same thing and shes constantly saying I'm not like a guy. It really bugs me and puts me down.
I really like it when my sis says i look like a boy xd
my mum would think its just another phase. I dont like the word "phase"

Thanx for listening
PostPosted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 6:31 pm


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But at school, my friend gets the same thing and shes constantly saying I'm not like a guy. It really bugs me and puts me down.


That could just be the fact that she /is/ your friend and therefore think of you as being female. I kind of have a similar problem, I see myself as not acting/looking very straight but many of the people I spend a lot of time with see me as being straight only because they do not know I'm gay (for some reason they just don't get it, I never try to act straight or gay. I could probably wear a shirt that says "I'm a lesbian" and probably wouldn't get it. >.< Okay, rant over)

ShoujoAiKat


Oh-boi-Kel

PostPosted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 3:03 pm


Heh I love when people mistake me for a guy. A lot of times people (waiters, etc) will call me "sir" or "young man", and then correct themselves when i start to talk. I hate when they correct themselves, I take thier mistake as a compliment.

I don't really know what to say about your friend. But good luck with that.
PostPosted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 8:01 pm


Well the only thing that can be done about your friend is talk to here and tell her how you feel.

I know thats like the worst regurgitated answer ever but its the truth.

Dizy_lizy


Acksul Rowse

PostPosted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 12:01 pm


Ah. I hate when my friends do that.
One time I was telling one of my closest friends about this guy at school I really wished I could look like and she said:
"Great.
I'm sure at Blake there'd be three-hundred guys you want to be.
BUT YOU'RE NOT D:"

And it made me sad.
I get bothered too easily by these things.
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