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Particle Wad
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 8:13 pm




This is here for me and other girls to completely b***h about what we really dislike about guys. It can be about one guy, or guys in general. Anything you want. I'm asking you to whine at me. I'll do my share of whining as well. I'm not sure if there are many active women, so I might be the only one bitching in here xD

PostPosted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 8:23 pm




I've already said this in my journal, but I HATE how guys get creeped out so easily. I have to watch my steps and make sure that I'm not freakin guys out. Like I have to find some sort of balance between looking like I don't like the man and I'm trying to get away from him, and looking like I'm wanting to hang out too much and stuff. But balancing is hard for a klutz to do. I am in no way balanced. I keep thinking I'm swaying too far to the "looking like I don't like the guy" and then I swing over to the "wanting to hang out a lot" side.

And for some reason, calling a guy to ask him if he wants to hang out is considered creepy. So I'm supposed to wait around and HOPE that the guy I'm crushing on HAPPENS to ask me to hang out? Or even TALKING to a guy is considered creepy. So I'm supposed to WAIT around and HOPE that THAT PARTICULAR guy just HAPPENS to come up and talk to me. And then I'm supposed to be quiet, yet talkative. Like WHAT? I don't even GET it, but for some reason I've been told that men HATE IT when girls are quiet, and then I get told that men HATE IT when girls are talkative. WHAT THE ******** DO YOU MEN WANT?!!

So this is me, hoping that some guy I'm crushing on will just happen to like me back and just happen to ask me out. ******** this gets me really mad. Really REALLY mad. REEEEEEEEEEALLY mad. I'm ready to punch something right now.

What if I like a guy? Am I to say "oh well, hope he talks to me" or something? Just that? Even a 'hi' is creepy? WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?! Act seducive? I don't even want that! WHAT. THE. HELL.


Particle Wad
Vice Captain


Particle Wad
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 6:47 pm




I figured out why I don't really feel like my guy friends give a flying ******** about me!

I think maybe guys don't automatically say "come on" or "lets go ", and they just kinda do. But that makes me feel like "ummm . . . . am I coming too, or are ya tryin to get rid of me?"

I still don't know what to do when I'm with a guy and all of a sudden he walks to a random place. Am I supposed to wait where I am, or follow him? I hate to be a stalker, but I hate to give him the message that I don't want to be with him, nor do I want him to think I'm a total dumbass. Stupid men. I seriously don't know what I see in you.

PostPosted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 5:30 pm


Tch. From my own point of view, it'd be no different if it were a girl calling me and asking to hang out than if it were a guy. But that's just me.

Dataphile


The Great Particle Wad
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 10:22 pm



I'm confused with the manly thing. Like... men have to be macho because they're men and macho. They can't like a certain kind of music because it's not macho. They're embarassed to do stuff 'cause it's not macho. And the ones who don't give a crap if they look macho often get called gay. That's kinda weird. And men give off such mixed signals about makeups. Like, first off they like these women who wear three inches of makeup, then say they don't like makeup at all, but they like makeup because it makes women pretty, but they hate it because it's not what the woman looks like. It seems that women have to be perfect little hairless (excluding head) graceful naturally beautiful big-breasted twigs in order to be accepted as 'pretty' by society. However, since none of this actually exists outside of touched up photo'd models, every girl has to have self-asteem issues nowadays. THANKS A LOT.
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