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 Posted: Tue Aug 28, 2007 7:05 am
I just had a massive arguement with my dad. It was over a stupid thing, but now he hates me. Apparently I owe him loads of money now as well because I "broke" my little brothers rare, expensive toys. They're not even broken. And my twin broke my mp3 player, but he doesn't have to pay for that. At least not according to my dad.
It might not sound like much, but this sort of thing happens nearly every day. I've gone through 5 mp3 players in the past 6 months because of my brothers. My brother tried to kill my guinea pigs by feeding them to the dog. They both hurt me. And my parents don't do anything. If I'm watching something on TV and they want to watch something else I have to turn it over. They take my stuff, like my DS charger and refuse to give them back. Then they lose/break it. They've ripped up/drawn on my homework as well.
My parents compare me to my twin brother all the time. He gets money for doing well in subjects like maths or science. English is my best subject, but they don't think it counts as much. He got stuff for passing a music exam, then he quit the instrument. I just passed two music exams. They didn't even say well done.
I might sound like a selfish little brat, but I just can't cope with it anymore. Please, someone help me.
I just can't cope with it anymore. I'm fed up of my family. But I'm not old enough to leave home. What should I do?
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Posted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 1:43 pm
There really isn't anything you can do... Sometimes life just sucks... If you think it's a very serious issue, you can research social services, see what they could do about your situation, and if they could help you, call them. It's a pretty serious measure though, so make sure that they will actually do something for you. Don't call them and then have them deny you any help because they don't think the issue is that serious, and then you're parents just get mad at you for making them look bad.
Be careful, ok? Don't do anything that could get you, or me even, in any sort of trouble. Keep in mind that you are young, and it sounds like your siblings are younger than you. They could just be spoiled, that happens. My little sister gets spoiled all over the place, but I don't do anything about it because that's how it's going to be. She's the youngest, so it's natural that they spoil her.
You could just be making a big deal out of it. My parents do many similar things, but I don't bother with it. My sister got praised once when she brought home all C's on her report card, but if I get one my parents are disappointed in me. They claim it's because she has a reading disorder that I call lazy. Sometimes your siblings will be spoiled, it happens.
Please don't do anything that could worsen your relationship with your family. You should also talk to your school Guidance Counselor first. They could help you out a lot better than someone online.
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Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 7:50 pm
Same with me almost, but I usually lose control of myself and hurt my family badly. Funny what shitty families will do to you. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Oct 25, 2007 12:12 pm
really theres nothing you can do, i know exactly how you feel(exept i dont have a twin) i bet it felt better to rant though, honestly it sounds like you come from a big family and there are power struggles between the kids, you just need to calm down and accept things the way they are, may i ask if its not to personal, is there anything else going on in the house, mabey between you parents because some times parents stress can come out and effect the kids, dont answer if you dont want to, really its just some food for thought.
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