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 Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 1:15 pm
Even though i am not a member please help
I have a friend and ireally do mean a friend not me as is in most cases
I think he is directing his power wrong if he trys to do things like power a crystal or make him selfrun faster which I think was stupid he ends up severly tired or in pain which is not suppoded to happen if I am correct
and I have told him that but he won't really listen he is here on gaia there but he won't read this because he does not know of this avi.
He also keeps trying to get more power with wicca symbols i believe it is i forget I don't thingk he fully understands not matter how much i thry so what should i do please post or pm me at either this avi or my other avi which is a member alia-elven-princess I put this under a differnt avi because i have already tried suggesting that he is doning it wrong and he shrugs it off and i don't want him to think i don not trust him . But importantly i don not want him to get hurt thank you
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 2:12 pm
Member or not, all are welcome, otherwise this wouldn't be a public guild
But in this case, you already have an avi that has been accepted. Doesn't matter to me how many avies a person has, it's the person themselves that counts.
Anyway, if your friend doesn't want to listen to your suggestions, then really there isn't much you can do except lead by example and hope he will one day realize your way might not be a bad idea. Trying to force the issue will only push him away, and you will not be able to assist him at all.
I know it may not sound like much, but sometimes gentleness and time work far better than force especially when dealing with people you care about.
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 9:49 am
I would have to agree, as they say, 'You can push a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.' The more you try to force it, the less likely it is that your friend will listen, however leading by example might soften the resistance...otherwise he just feels that you're being jugemental regardless of your heartfelt good intentions and deep concern.
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