ok... well i have been going out with my bf for 2 of 3 months.... well in the beging we did about nothing. but lately we have been doing more and more stuff in priviet i.e. kissing... i really don't mind all of that but late week he wanted to get up my shirt... and the the week after he said he wanted to get in my pants. i told him no, that we will wait and he said that it was ok with him. all he wanted to do was make me "happy" or pleasure me.... well he also said it would bring us closer together as a couple. i have been asking around and i think i found out that when a guy fingures thier girlfriend this early it really does not help... well we decided to have a talk about it next month but i really don't know what to tell him... i really like him and i understand he wants to make me "happy" but i have no idea what is right for us to do and what is wrong, seeing that this is my first bf, i also have no idea how to tell him no and how far i should let him. but th only thing he does know is that i won't have sex with him. well not yet anyways..... well he is 16 and i am 13. so it really gets me confused. will you people please help me?
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