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 Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 7:23 pm
 What do you all think about love and D/s relationships? Right now, Steph (Metamorphosis Lycanthropy) and I are very much in love... and I think it makes our relationship even better and stronger.
What about you? What experiences have you had with love and D/s relationships, and what do you think of it in general? Does it help, does it make things worse...?
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Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 8:07 pm
So far, nothing has gone wrong with us.
heart I believe it's made things better for us.... it's definitely made a strong bond...
heart heart heart
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Metamorphosis Lycanthropy Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 1:31 pm
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 1:36 pm
In my opinion, if both parties are happy with it, and they love each other, a D/s relationship can bring it one step further. Not only are you more likely to know each other better, but you've already allowed yourself to trust them beyond what you would the average person. In a D/s relationship, both parties have power, and by allowing someone to hold that power over you, you're opening yourself up to them. I wish you two lots of luck and happiness.
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Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 7:35 pm
Thank you~ I appreciate your thoughts and luck. >w<
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 3:02 am
What works for other people... does not work for me. The years I was in love were the most pathetic of my existence and the slight D/s aspect to the relationship made it worse, since he did nothing satisfying. I hate the idea of having a romantic relationship, honestly. I much prefer the very logical connection I have with the Sadist (the guy with whom I now play)-- I trust him deeply and we are not in love, but there is a very deep understanding present, a very strong friendship. And, yes. That does make our play even stronger. In my opinion.
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Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 11:40 am
My heart stops beating only for you, baby...
Thankies for the reply, Mors. Even if I took forever to realize you'd replied. whee
I think you generally need to have at least a very strong friendship or something like it. Because I don't think you can ever really have a good D/s relationship without trust and knowing and understanding each other.
heart For your loving...
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Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 1:33 am
Personally, I get into relationships with the interest of a romantic involvement. Without it, for me, there is no relationship. And anything involving a dom/sub element to our relationship is just a part of it, and by no means the entire basis of the relationship.
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Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 5:25 pm
I am in a 24/7 TPE relationship. Master is my lover, my best friend, my life-partner, my everything. I can't imagine anything else.
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 8:14 pm
fioce I am in a 24/7 TPE relationship. Master is my lover, my best friend, my life-partner, my everything. I can't imagine anything else.
Awww. That's sweet. whee heart
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Posted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 5:07 am
LOL I wasn't trying to be sweet. He really is *everything* to me. I am even giving him my Power of Attorney ... which means that he legally do anything on my behalf that I can do on my own, like access my bank account, sell my possessions, etc.
A warning, though ... it is very easy for a Dom to ease up when s/he loves the submissive. We had a baby boy five months ago, and Master has been very lenient on me since about half way through the pregnancy - right up until I directly contradicted him in public, in front of a friend. redface
It is hurting him emotionally to give me the punishment that I very much deserve, but it is vital and necessary to save our relationship.
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Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 6:35 pm
Love in D/s you say? I think it can help. It provides a 24/7 aspect to it, instead of just a scene or two at a time. But trust is necessary with or without love, and I doubt I'll be able to be convinced otherwise.
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 4:57 am
Has someone tried to convince you otherwise? eek
I realize that there are some people who are willing to hand themselves over to a stranger, but they are few and I think they are mentally unbalanced.
A Dominant must trust his submissive to obey.
A submissive must trust her Dominant to provide proper rules and guidance.
Without trust, you have ... what? A couple of people swinging paddles?
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 2:57 pm
fioce Has someone tried to convince you otherwise? eek I realize that there are some people who are willing to hand themselves over to a stranger, but they are few and I think they are mentally unbalanced. A Dominant must trust his submissive to obey. A submissive must trust her Dominant to provide proper rules and guidance. Without trust, you have ... what? A couple of people swinging paddles? I wanna walk in the open wind.
I wanna kiss like lovers do.
Ugh, exactly. I think people who just throw themselves into Scenes without knowing and trusting the person they play with are stupid, end of story.I wanna dive into your ocean.
Is it raining with you?
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 4:04 pm
That is why I haven't gone to one, I know little about scenes/munches/clubs other than etiquette. Because of this, I will and tend not to go to one till I am ready with some real S&M in my life.
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