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 Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 9:05 pm
I am 17, currently a Junior at my High School, and have been told by many that I am vastly mature for my age. I am reasonably attractive and still a follower of Christ despite my failings. Oh, and two months ago, I was diagnosed with Clinical Depression.
Currently, I am in love with a young woman who is 7 months younger than me and in my grade. It started off as just a crush about three years ago and at this point Im positive Im in love. Weve been very good friends since 7th grade (This year we're best friends it seems like), and we both have a lot in common (same taste in music, interests, websites, food, friends, movies, etc.). She's also incredibly (mind-bogglingly ) attractive, and very kind-hearted and sweet. When we're not messing around, talking, or wrestling, it seems like we're flirting.
Now at this point Id like to add that she has a boyfriend who isnt Christian, but is an okay guy (She's really happy in their relationship). While I'm thrilled shes happy, Im not happy. Her boyfriend lives about 90 miles away, and so they rarely see eachother, and Ive been told that theyve been sort of drifting lately.
So anyway I'm terribly deppressed just about all the time now (unless Im with her, really) and desperatly want to be in a romantic relationship with her. However, I dont want to 'steal' her from her current BF (even though I dont really know him well at all), and I dont want to upset her. Now I've already asked God what to do ( no replies yet, but I know Ill get something eventually), and I want to know ANYONES opinion on what you think I should do.
Part of me wants to pour this part of my soul out to her (we dont keep many (If any really)secrets from each other). She's incredibly sweet and understanding so I doubt it would end the friendship. But I dont want to make her uncomfortable, and I dont know what to do, really.
So PLEASE, Help?
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Posted: Wed Oct 24, 2007 7:52 pm
me don't know this stuff....sorry.
if me had to question me think we try tell her....talking be ok and she understand.
do/did you talk/ask you parents for help/advice on/about this?????
you ask GOD, you have parents too, they could help also.
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Posted: Wed Oct 24, 2007 8:53 pm
me know it all me don't know this stuff....sorry. if me had to question me think we try tell her....talking be ok and she understand. do/did you talk/ask you parents for help/advice on/about this????? you ask GOD, you have parents too, they could help also. I love my parents dearly, but I cant talk to them about this kindof stuff. Thanx for trying to help tho! 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Oct 25, 2007 8:13 pm
JesusFreak03 me know it all me don't know this stuff....sorry. if me had to question me think we try tell her....talking be ok and she understand. do/did you talk/ask you parents for help/advice on/about this????? you ask GOD, you have parents too, they could help also. I love my parents dearly, but I cant talk to them about this kindof stuff. Thanx for trying to help tho! 3nodding why not???? they already had to deal with this sort of thing, and are now your parents. they old and thus have knowledge, they could help you much more than me can....me can only try question ...sorry, but me think you can talk about this kind of stuff with them....me know i would... 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Jun 23, 2008 9:14 am
be bold and face her. dont be afraid about stealing her. maybe thats what she wants. every woman loves to be swept off her feet and taken into a new and wonderfully romantic relationship. you know what she likes tell the girl how you feel but let the words flow into something kinda poetic. it doesnt have to be too much but just enough so she thinks that she is the most beautiful thing. and be quick about it. my bf was almost too late and we got together a little by chance and a lot by gods will. he is my miracle make yourself be a miracle to the girl of your dreams.
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