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 Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2007 5:58 pm
First, I am in love with my best friend, he is great, but he slept with his 15 year old girlfriend (at her request) on their first month anni...I still love him, they are still together but I think she is cheating on him, I just broke up with my own boyfriend of 6 months cause of my mom, her problem is below,
what should I tell the guy I love, keep going as a friendship or let him know about the girl he is seeing?
Then there is my mom.
Ok, my mom is emotionally abusive and drinks, so i ran away a week ago but the cops brought me back. I am taking her to court to get my dad custody but she is being really nice now.
I know its just a phase and she will start again and I am scared that one day she might hit me.
The cops said I could go live with my dad anytime I wanted cause I'm 17 but if I run away I hurt my step dad who has given me the world, if I wait til the court thing though then he wont hurt as bad cause I can work it where I visit with him and she cant touch me.
If I leave now there is no turning back, I am gone and will never see my step dad again.
What do i do?
thats all the info I'm willing to post for everyone, if you want more in depth then PM me.
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 2:10 pm
This is some very serious stuff and I'm going to urge you only to take my advice with a grain of salt.
First, love can be a really complicated thing, sweetie. Sometimes you can love someone with all your heart and soul, but they might not feel the same way back. If it were me though, I'd let him know that she was cheating on him if I had proof of it, otherwise I'd probably feel like a homewrecker. Also friendship can lead to more if you give it time, he may feel the same way, you never know so just be there with him to help him through his troubles and he'll remember you later on when you feel ready to tell him your true feelings.
Second, about your mother, sweetie it never is a good thing to live with someone that is emotionally damaging to you. If you really are afraid of your mother like that, you should find someone you can confide your feelings into. Someone you can trust, in real life though not online if you can help it. You just have to do what you feel is right. That's really all the advice I can give, good luck.
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Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 5:05 pm
Theres two types of guys when it comes to this actually. Theres the type who would listen to you because your saying it for his best interest... And then theres the guy who would refuse to listen to stuff like that and chooses to be ignorant until he actually sees it happening. I would have to say... Telling him is the best option. Especially if you like him. If you dont tell him now, your friendship can be damaged in the future if he found out you knew.
As far as the thing with your mom goes... I say that if you want to be in good terms with ur step dad, before you go live with your actual dad then... wait for court. As you said, your mom is only temporarily being nice. So until the court, your pretty safe. But if she starts trying to persuade you to stay with her when you reach the court date and you think that theres a possibility that she will hit you, then run away.
Although what you choose to do is up to you.
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