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Aarora
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 06, 2007 6:28 pm


It's about my friend.

So... she "loves" this guy. You know how teens are these days. And they've been through a lot together and been together for over a year now. I think it's like 2 years or something. Maybe more. But anyway... The other day, they 'broke up' and he grabbed her and threw her against a wall. She only bruised her arm.
But, she says "I'm confused." I told her that if she's confused she shouldn't be with him because that will just confuse her more. She says he pressured her into being with him.
What will happen next? Punch her in the face? Then one day he's going to frickin' throw her on the ground and I think it'll end up in rape.
This girl. I don't know, she doesn't know what to do beause she's confused.
I think she's scared of him.
I think when they break up [if they do] he'll look for her and hit her or something.

She can't tell her parents because she's not even allowed to have guy friends. Her mom would freak if she knew she had a boyfriend. :/
I met him, also. I don't like him. He gives off that 'I'm an a*****e and don't care what you think cause I'm going to become an abusive person one day' vibe.

Please help A.Sap.
PostPosted: Tue Nov 06, 2007 8:27 pm


Tell your mom about it, or contact the police. They need to deal with this. Unfortunately that's all I can say, because there's nothing much you can do hun.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 12:42 pm



The only logical explanation is for her to tell her parents. D:
If she gets beat up any more, they'll probably be on her case about it, and eventually, they'll figure out...
If she calls the police, they're obligated to tell her parents about it -- its the law -- so its probably best that her parents hear it from her, first.

They'll certainly freak and she'll probably get in trouble, but that's a hell of a lot better than getting raped.

PostPosted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 5:25 am


Thanks. <3
::huggles::

I don't know. I was talking to her and I told her that if she doesn't do something about it then I will do it. And that I will tell her mom.

And she says. "You wouldn't do that." and I just said, "Watch me."
It's just hard, I guess, because I can be losing a good friend over this.
But I suppose it's better to lose a friend like this then having another die. :/

Some things are just harder than they seem.


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