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Wishbone R
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 4:50 pm


This is actually really simple, but some people, myself included, take a little while to get the hang of it.

The ED's an interesting place. It can be a heated environment, or it can be pretty placid, depending upon the tone of the particular thread you're in- to succeed, there are a few general things to remember.

1. Read the rules, and don't make a new thread if there's already one addressing the subject. It's quick, it's easy, and it's where EDers are most notorious- virtually all of the agression surfaces when someone misposts. Luckily, it's easy to avoid misposting if you just pay attention.

2. Do your absolute best to back yourself up. This clause includes not taking a stance that's impossible to support- for example any purely opinion-based adjective (wrong, right, gross, innocent, evil, good, etc) is not worth saying. You don't have to cite every other statement, but be prepared to provide proof if challenged. The fun of the Extended Discussion is that we're not just here to post our opinions- we're here to challenge and debate our own and those of others.

3. If you realize your point has been disproven, concede. You end up looking like a jerk if you're a bad sport about it.

4. Ad hominem (insults) are a no-go. You'll look dumb. Verbal sparring tends to be half the fun, and if that's your thing, go for it- but remember to attack the argument, not your opponant.

5. All fallacies are to be avoided- if you don't know whether or not it's a fallacy, refer to our guide. They don't help your argument, they aggravate those who have experience with them, and odds are at least five people before you have tried the very same train of faulty reasoning. If you find yourself with nothing but a fallacy to work with, you may need to reconsider your stance. (Thanks to BlackShadow for bringing it up.)

6. Don't feed the trolls. Report, and move on. If someone posts something obviously calibrated to piss you off, don't. Some trolls post to evoke a point, but that's called satire, and another ballgame; trolling is presenting something outrageous or offensive for the sake of outrage or offense. As has been pointed out, a troll as an individual might not be a nasty little gopher, but they are in groups.

7. There are stupid questions, but ask anyway. It's kind of like rock 'em sock 'em robots with a diverse working knowledge of anything you might want to know. If you get punched in the face, maybe you can learn something.

8. Don't take it personally.

9. Read the opening post (OP) of a thread, and skim the first page of responses. If something important is realized (for example, that the OP is actually a peice of well-known satire), you won't look like you were slow on the uptake. On the flip side, if you do miss something like that, refer to number seven.

10. Keep your temper. This is probably the number one reason people start mudslinging, and it can cause an otherwise valuable debate to degenerate, quickly.

These are pretty simple- a step up from the manners you supposedly learned in primary school. Not tough. Essentially, it's all you need to get started, and you could have figured it out by yourself.
PostPosted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 10:00 am


Wonderful! I'm glad there are still people out there who worry about their debating behaviour.

I've been known to subtly insult people with nicknames such as hun or dear, while not even meaning to. It's a habit that I should quit. I'm also the kind of perso who loves to get a last say at everything: report-and-leave is hard for me.

But I shall better myself!

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 7:26 pm


How to post in the ED: in ten simple steps. Er, sorry.

Anyway, thanks. I have troubles with 2 and 6 sometimes. Nice job.
PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 8:39 pm


#6 can die. if it's not a real thread, i'm not going to obey any rules within it...it's fun to feed the troll! mrgreen

Kiloran


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 9:22 pm


Kiloran
#6 can die. if it's not a real thread, i'm not going to obey any rules within it...it's fun to feed the troll! mrgreen


You would break the rules, because "it's fun to feed the troll!"?
PostPosted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 3:31 pm


Very nice. I'm glad that these rules, although everyone knows them at heart, are up, because sometimes it is too easy to ignore internal nagging...

aromli


truthteller25

PostPosted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 5:28 am


thanks, good to know.
PostPosted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 9:01 pm


Who passed these laws? I thought we were a democracy...

Fascist >.>

AnarchoManiac


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 6:15 pm


Laws? To me these seem like guidelines and proper etiquette, and the title of this forum seems to back me up. And this is a democracy, its not like Wish Bone can make you obey these guidelines, because you can simply leave and join another guild, after all, its your right. And I find it not wise to call the guild leader a fascist, especially since this is a democracy, and you can be removed from his guild, after all its his right.
Lol, I wonder how you could enforce the law, "8. Don't take it personally." if it were a law.
PostPosted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 2:31 pm


Salotus
Laws? To me these seem like guidelines and proper etiquette, and the title of this forum seems to back me up. And this is a democracy, its not like Wish Bone can make you obey these guidelines, because you can simply leave and join another guild, after all, its your right. And I find it not wise to call the guild leader a fascist, especially since this is a democracy, and you can be removed from his guild, after all its his right.
Lol, I wonder how you could enforce the law, "8. Don't take it personally." if it were a law.
I wish that WERE a law. "you are being banned for taking things personally. Don't try to dispute it, we saw you crying your emo self to sleep after posting last week..."

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darkcrimsongoth

PostPosted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 3:32 am


These are somewhat like the unwritten laws of the ED. They're not actually written anywhere, but everyone has to follow them.

I doubt if my above sentance makes any sense, so I apolgise to those who read it.
PostPosted: Wed Dec 19, 2007 9:44 pm


Thanks for posting these , it's too bad you can't post this as a sticky in the ED where everyone could read it ..it'd really help

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 12:49 am


It would be pretty neat if this was an ED sticky. I have seen a lot of people who NEED to know this stuff.
PostPosted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 11:17 am


AnarchoManiac
Who passed these laws? I thought we were a democracy...

Fascist >.>


crying

You know I'm just obeying orders from my fuhrer! It would be a perfect world if you'd obey, too! Submit! Submit!

Wishbone R
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PostPosted: Fri Dec 19, 2008 9:19 pm


Please, please, PLEASE emphasize that people need to stop bitching about everyone's writing style. If you don't like someone's spelling, punctuation, usage, paragraphing, font size/color, etc., then simply skip the post and read the next one. You don't need to preach about it.

...Especially when it's obviously a typo >.>
-DisasCatas
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