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 Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 4:28 pm
Its all in my latest journal entry, please redirect there. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 3:51 pm
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Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 9:04 am
My first piece of advise is to post your journal thing here and not direct people too it. Many probably don't know how to get to your journal and more don't want to have to click there and then come back here to answer so your post here will get unanswered.
Also don't double post when you told people to go to your journal. If someone goes to your journal they are more then likely to answer your questions on your journal then come back here, which takes a bit of time.
As for your questions, sometimes one needs to take a few risks. I will tell you to ignore the first person on your comments who said to pack her things away, you only need to do that if you are breaking up and this doesn't sound like a break-up. Maybe you should just take what you need and go to her. My wife did just that, packed up a small pick up truck and her parents drove her out here to be with me. We were lucky because I could support the both of us, but she did plan to move her job out here. It sounds like you have a plan, but you might have to decide between your things and your love. You can always buy new things when you get there. When I moved away from my hometown to Toronto I had one dufflebag of clothes, my cat, a couple of boxes of my art and a computer. Not even a bed to sleep on. It can be hard, but sometimes things need to be done.
Well good luck and jaa ne
Kat
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Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 11:55 am
My advice is just to go, sell your car if you think you'll have a way to get around for basics when you get there, I mean like to get to a job or what have you, From the money you get for your car take a plane, have her pick you up, then the both of you should look for a place to rent, This is all supposing that her mother wouldn't mind you guys being together and in her house, if you even suspect she might then I'd wait
Stuff really isn't all that important to me or my girlfriend, when I left for college to move into a dorm I couldn't bring even a fourth of my stuff, rooms being so small and all, and as for Krys moving up to be with me, we had finally had enough of being apart, and she literally brought with her 1 suitcase and a small cosmetic bag with toiletries and maybe 80 bucks, I payed for plane tickets 1 way that was 2 years ago she hasn't been home since, of course she knows all of her belongings are still there at her moms house waiting for her, lol we just still haven't come up with a logical plan to get them up here, For the most part we share clothes and live cheap, I payed for everything for the two of us with credit cards for the most part until she got a job, now were paying them off together, I don't know if thats a possbuilty for you guys or not? Anyway, Good luck I know it can feel almost impossible to get through a day when your loves not there to make it worth the effort, ya just gotta be brave and do what you have to do
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Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 2:26 am
So, did she actually break up with you or just move away from the situation you were in? If you went there would she meet you with open arms or would she have no more interest?
If she wants you, then yeah, pack the car with the stuff you really need, store the the rest, or better yet, sell what you can to make gas/hotel/food money, and drive to her.
You said something about transfering your job to Cali, if your job is transferable like that, can you get some help moving from your new employer as a signing bonus or something?
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Posted: Sun Dec 16, 2007 10:13 am
I wanted advice, not a lecture.
neutral
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Posted: Tue Dec 18, 2007 10:39 pm
Alas, they are often the same thing. Sorry, no offense was intended.
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