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 Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 7:23 pm
Hey everyone,
Ok here's my issue, i've been with my boy for six months now and i've yet been able to let him penetrate me. We've tried 3 times and 3 times i've back out, the first time he went all the way in but i felt a little dizzy and we stopped, second time we tried a different position, the same happend again and the third time it hurt too much going in and i stopped him before he was in. So it seems like we're going backwards. My boy's great and is being totally understanding but i want to be able to do this for him.
Any advice you could give will be greatly appreciated
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Posted: Mon Dec 03, 2007 7:55 pm
lots and lots of lube.. not the warmming stuff, cuase it hurts.. maybe vasaline? and then maybe he is just big, or yout to tight.. get toys and play with em 1st.. use a finger and mess around
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Double Agent Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 7:40 pm
yes, lots of lube is good. I would recommend astroglide!
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 11:40 am
Sadly if none of that works you may be the problem. Some times your too scared that you tighten. He could be going too fast too or you may not be a bottom. My bf is a natural bottom to the point that he goes numb if he trys to be a top. You may be getttiing dizzy because your not ready to do it yet.
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Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 10:22 pm
You may have the same problem I did, too. It hurt alot at first, due to fear, and anxiaty. tightened up way too much. but once you get started, it gets more relaxing, and quickly extreemly pleasureful. take all things into account. I'd say they are right, though, probably just need more lube.
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Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 5:51 pm
it might also help to do a**l masterbation, use toys, fingers... just to get it used to.
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 5:55 am
I don't know why it is that people think that they HAVE to have a**l sex. If your not ready to relax enough then maybe now is not the right time. Have you ever thought of that? Just because you're gay doesn't not mean that your boyfriend is entitled to dive into your box of treats.
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 12:29 pm
TrinitySpark I don't know why it is that people think that they HAVE to have a**l sex. If your not ready to relax enough then maybe now is not the right time. Have you ever thought of that? Just because you're gay doesn't not mean that your boyfriend is entitled to dive into your box of treats. LOL your post just sounds so funny. Okay. My first time was interesting. but before we even started a**l we played around a little. him fingering me and such and giving head and all that. But you have to be relaxed and ready. Im glad that I will instantly get relaxed if am cuddling or being hugged, but also ease your way into it. start with cuddling kissing and alittle foreplay then it will build up and you will be relaxed and also use ALOT of lube. at first it hurt alittle with me but he put more lube and it was great. dont just lube his tool. have him or you finger some in you.
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Posted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 7:26 am
There are also special lube for a**l sex that relaxes the hole, cheak in sex shops atc
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