ok so, i guess i'll start off by introducing my problem; i strongly like two different people.
the first is Matthew. i've known him for about two years now, and i've been obsessed with him since May 2007. we've dated twice, but first time, i made the mistake of breaking up with him because my exbf told me he got Matthew to go out with me. then the second time we dated, he broke up with me because he didn't like me like that anymore. (1 year and a half older than me)
&& then there's
Mario. he and i met him at the public library in August of 2007. and lately we have been talking alot. and we have hung out a few times. well, he broke up with his girlfriend of about a year to be single. and talk with me. so we've been talking and he is so sweet! (nearly 3 years older than i am)
so here's the story:
Recently, matthew has suggested he might still like me, and wehn i found out, my heart did cartwheels. i was soo happy. i mean i was ecstatic. but since i've been talking mario, i don't think its right. mario wants to be with me but not be my boyfriend. stupid, i know. but matthew is kind of the same way. he said we should go on a few dates, maybe kiss, just get to know each other better, and then we can decide whether or not it'd be a good thing for us to date. and i agreed to that because it sounded like a good idea at the time. well, mario goes out of his way to ensure my happiness. he leaves me sweet text messages all the time, learns songs i like and plays them on his guitar for me, calls me whenever he can, sees me any chance he gets. Matthew is just there. he does always make sure i'm ok, though. so both of them are great guys, or at least i think so.
Now, i have been crying because i'm just too confused. I dont want to hurt either of them. and I have to pick one. I cannot date two guys at the same time, its just wrong.
If i picked Matthew to "date" then there's still the possiblity that he doesn't like me and will break me heart.
Whereas with Mario, i KNOW he likes me. he likes me alot. And i think after everythign with him and the girl he just broke up with is over, he'll ask me to go with him.
I just want be able to sort it all out, but it so hard. I cry sometimes, when i think about matt. i don't know why, but it hurts. it hurts so bad, and i dont even know why i like him. its just like "what's there NOT to like?"
My friends tell me to pick Matt bc he is closer to my age, but i just want to avoid heartache right now.
And if i pick Mario, i still think "what if he dumps me for his exgf?" or "what if he realizes i AM 3 years younger?" or "can i trust him?" he is in highschool as a sophomore. and I am merely a 7th grader, but i still feel this way. I wish i could figure things out. I wish i knew.
So, what do you think i should do?
Please reply ASAP.
and thanks for taking your time to read all this.
the first is Matthew. i've known him for about two years now, and i've been obsessed with him since May 2007. we've dated twice, but first time, i made the mistake of breaking up with him because my exbf told me he got Matthew to go out with me. then the second time we dated, he broke up with me because he didn't like me like that anymore. (1 year and a half older than me)
&& then there's
Mario. he and i met him at the public library in August of 2007. and lately we have been talking alot. and we have hung out a few times. well, he broke up with his girlfriend of about a year to be single. and talk with me. so we've been talking and he is so sweet! (nearly 3 years older than i am)
so here's the story:
Recently, matthew has suggested he might still like me, and wehn i found out, my heart did cartwheels. i was soo happy. i mean i was ecstatic. but since i've been talking mario, i don't think its right. mario wants to be with me but not be my boyfriend. stupid, i know. but matthew is kind of the same way. he said we should go on a few dates, maybe kiss, just get to know each other better, and then we can decide whether or not it'd be a good thing for us to date. and i agreed to that because it sounded like a good idea at the time. well, mario goes out of his way to ensure my happiness. he leaves me sweet text messages all the time, learns songs i like and plays them on his guitar for me, calls me whenever he can, sees me any chance he gets. Matthew is just there. he does always make sure i'm ok, though. so both of them are great guys, or at least i think so.
Now, i have been crying because i'm just too confused. I dont want to hurt either of them. and I have to pick one. I cannot date two guys at the same time, its just wrong.
If i picked Matthew to "date" then there's still the possiblity that he doesn't like me and will break me heart.
Whereas with Mario, i KNOW he likes me. he likes me alot. And i think after everythign with him and the girl he just broke up with is over, he'll ask me to go with him.
I just want be able to sort it all out, but it so hard. I cry sometimes, when i think about matt. i don't know why, but it hurts. it hurts so bad, and i dont even know why i like him. its just like "what's there NOT to like?"
My friends tell me to pick Matt bc he is closer to my age, but i just want to avoid heartache right now.
And if i pick Mario, i still think "what if he dumps me for his exgf?" or "what if he realizes i AM 3 years younger?" or "can i trust him?" he is in highschool as a sophomore. and I am merely a 7th grader, but i still feel this way. I wish i could figure things out. I wish i knew.
So, what do you think i should do?
Please reply ASAP.
and thanks for taking your time to read all this.
