Alrighty, so here's my problem(s)!
1. My ex-boyfriend is a stalker, who I want to remain FRIENDS with, but nothing more. I don't know how to tell him to...well..stop stalking me.

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2. My new boyfriend of four months and I got together only a few days after I broke up with my ex (which is one reason why I don't like him, I've been rushed into relationships for the past three years!). My boyfriend seemed nice at first, and I only said yes because at the time...I thought I liked him too. However he's possessive, I don't like him at all and he just wants to get into my pants. (something which I've denied him...countless times)

I need to break up with my boyfriend, and quick. The only reason why I can't just simply do it is because he tells me how long he waited for me, (he was my ex's best friend) and how much he loves me. I just...I feel like a major B**** when I think about breaking up with him. However I also feel like an idiot for falling for his lies (but I can't help it).

Plus, I'm not exactly comfortable with dating my ex's best friend. My boyfriend wont tell him, and I'm afraid to tell him. Honestly, I don't know what to do!