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 Posted: Mon Dec 31, 2007 9:22 am
Okay, I've noticed that a few members have been coming to the guild to spill their guts to the other caring individuals that make up Go-Go GCRPC. So, I thought it would be kool if there was a thread specifically dedicated to problems and advice. Anyone is free to post their problems/issues/questions here, and everyone is encouraged to give (good) advice or just be helpful and supportive to those who need it.
There is only one rule: BE RESPECTFUL
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Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 12:48 pm
Its a good idea, but how often its used might be an issue XP
People who want to post here might have to dig it back up again but it would be a fine idea to do so ^^
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Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 12:54 pm
There is nothing wrong....
That is a good suggestion. And I thought this guild already had one of those. O_O Maybe I'm getting mixed up with another one. -_-
....with eating ramen with sugar.
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Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 2:30 pm
hmm...as far i know there's not...
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Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 3:53 pm
I don't believe there is. o.o
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Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 4:10 pm
ok, here's a question: how do you tell someone who's really stubborn and insecure that she's making a huge mistake? especially if you know she doesn't listen to reason...
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Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 6:40 am
Ah! Best way to do that isnt to tell them what they should do, but outline what they shouldnt do. Just make sure you say everything possible except 'Dont do this...'
Then after you think you have. Ask them what they think they should do.
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Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 7:18 am
Thanks wnx ^^
unfortunately I don't get to talk to her in person at the moment (she's off at university) so i'm writing her a letter... hopefully i'll find the right words to put.
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Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 8:23 am
AH! Well once you send it and you think you've given it enough time to get there, try phoning her? It might help as well. And no problem ^^
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Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 3:48 pm
yeah, that's a good idea. but i don't honestly think she'll want to talk to me... sad
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Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 10:14 am
Its always good to try. Thing is. Even if she doesnt want to talk at the time. When she does have a moment of enlightenment or tranquility, she will see things differently and see how people have been trying to do things.
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Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 2:53 pm
yeah i'll give it a try, but not for a while. she doesn't usually have a lot of "tranquil" moments...
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Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 11:11 am
Ah ok, fair enough i guess.
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 1:22 am
Meh.
i'm not gonna take ppls advice because i'm too much of a coward to do so but i thought i'd like to hear what you ppl have to say.
I like one of my friends. I've liked him since I met him (didn't really know at the time) when I was acting like I usually do with everyone and pointing the edge of my folder next to his eye to see what he would do and he just went into it and smiled. So then I started talking to him because I thought he'd be a cool person to hang out with. And then I started to get to know him really well and liking him a lot longer than my usual fleeting crushes. Then I had to move for almost a year without any contact. And I thought the feeling had finally gone away. But I went back and when I saw him again my heart just raced. And we smiled and joked and got into little arguments (because I have mood swings) and even I started noticing how close we were getting. My friend told me a girl had asked her if he and I were going out. I thought: "Oh crap. Am I really that obvious?" My friend said that she didn't notice at first. That I hid it really well and she only had a feeling when I told her (which was durring the summer after 9th I think). I guess I couldn't really hide myself this time. But now I've had to move away again. And he never contacts me. And I've tried to contact him. And I truly do think my case is hopeless.
Would it be worth the risk of being utterly devistated just to see how he really feels?
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 7:26 am
hmmm, that's a toughy.
Well, in my opinion it's best to let the guy make the first move. If he's not up to admitting he likes you, then he probably doesn't feel too strongly about it.
On the other hand, he might just be trying to distance himself because you moved away. If you moved really far (like no chance of seeing him on the weekends far) then maybe you should hold off on telling him because it's probably going to be pretty painful for you two to be separated if you both admit to having feelings for each other. But if you're not too far, maybe you could call him up and ask if he'd like to hang out sometime, maybe even with a group of friends... and see how it goes. If he keeps up contact after that (make sure he gets your cell number wink ) then he's probably interested, and will probably ask you out himself.
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