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PostPosted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 5:13 pm


Okay, so there is this guy in my gym and science class, his name is George. When I first met him at the beginning of the school year I thought he was kinda cute and all. But he turns out to be a god damn perv. I mean a serious pervert. After near the end of the first cycle he called me Fat Asian. Well thats kinda of rude right? Next cycle, cycle two which we are in right now I have science and gym class with him. Then out of nowhere he called my beautiful, most girls would take that as a compliment right? Wrong. He didn't just call me beautiful, he basically said "Flora you are so beautiful. I want you to marry you and have my baby." Okay I don't know if most girls find it flattering or what, but the way he said it was so perverted. I naturally started to hate him even more. Somewhere near the middle of the cycle two I got in trouble. Before I continue let me say something, George had a loud dirty and annoying mouth. So naturally everyone hates him a lot. Now continuing, we were in science class and he was being more loud than usual. This annoyed all my classmates and me. He was also saying things in Chinese, rude perverted things...towards me. So I told him to "STFU". Sadly I didnt see the teacher behind him, stupid I know but I have a temper. I got sent to the Dean. crying

George had stopped bugging me for a while but two weeks later he was bugging me again. He is so **** annoying. I see him in gym and he was saying perverted things, eying me, and well generally being rude and perverted. I have threatened him many times but it doesnt seem to work. He's a coward, before class ends he runs away from me before I can get to him.
Well today I had gym with him at the end of the day. He was all the way across the gym from me and he was making hugging motions to me....oh wait...that was grabbing breast motions. Aw **** I just realized that. O_O" Anyways...(controls temper) after class I tried to get him. Sadly the door to the guys locker was right in front of the gym door. So he just stood right in front of guys locker room and said I had huge breasts and repeated what he said earlier. Then my friend Carrie told me that George had kept saying that to her before and also he was 'practing ****** grabbing motion'. I want to kill right now.

Oh yea AND when I came home he imed me asking for help on the Science Lab Report. I wonder where people get the ******** nerve to say something rude and perverted and then ask help from the very same person? Please anyone have an advice with this? I dont know what to do anymore. Sometimes I just feel like killing myself out of frustration or crying.
PostPosted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 2:52 pm


that happend to me file a sexual harassment report if that dont work the skool will take care of it

GiGGles_blondii


wownewusername

PostPosted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 4:25 pm


Thanks. ._. But would they take it seriously? He didn't really do anything. He is all talk. ._.
PostPosted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 10:46 am


well tell them wat he is saying is making you uncomfortable and they'll give him a warning and tell you if it goes any further let them kno ASAP

GiGGles_blondii


hobbitdrummer
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 2:09 pm


Although he never touched you, he made his intentions clear to you, and that can be still filed under sexual harassment. Just go to the office and ask to speak with a councellor or a principal of any of them are free, and tell them about the situation, what he's said to you, the "motions", and whatever else that makes you uncomfortable. And, of course, if they don't seem to see the significance of it, stretch your story a little by saying that it doesn't make you feel safe to come to school anymore, and you're really really bothered by it. Just, whatever you do, don't tell them anything about wanting to "kill yourself". Worst mistake ever. That's one of the classified "red flags", and whatever topic you brought up before would soon be dropped, and the attention would go to you since they would try and set you up with a councellor (of private practice, or just one at school). If you say anything that you feel like doing to yourself or someone else that is very destructive or could put anyone in danger, they are less likely to help the situation and find a solution to it.

If that doesn't work, just ignore him. But, if he ever does anything to you, lay into him. Then, of course, they'll call you to the office for destructive behavior, and all you need to say then is "I've discussed this with you all before. He has been making really rude and sexual comments to me for a long time, and nothing was done about it. I hit him because he did this (and just state what he did. Don't explain)." If you handle yourself with explainations short and to the point, they're much more likely to catch it, and you have a bigger chance of not getting in as much trouble. Sure, you might get a couple days in Isolation, but it'll look a lot better on your record than actual suspension. Just don't hit him unless he does something to you physically. Otherwise, it cannot be considered self-defense.

Along with that, if you hit him and get your point across to him, you should have no more problem with him ever again, and he might even leave everyone else alone that he's been bothering because he's too embarrassed that he got hit by a girl. (Trust me, I have experience.)
PostPosted: Thu Apr 28, 2011 11:56 pm


i dont know what grade ur in but that is some sexual harassment. tell ur parents and file for sexual harassment at school. i did it in the 8th grade and that crap stopped. it was in gym too, kids think that since they arent being constantly monitored by a teacher they can do what they want to u. they cant and make that clear. u cant follow through with threats, but the school HAS TO follow through with ur report and make sure he stops and even sometimes u get an apology! go for it! be brave! get rid of that creep!

carrieXchaos

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