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sist00rs

PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 1:06 pm


Hey guys! This is actually another article from the same magazine... I just read it, and it really touched my heart. I have had problems with depression, feeling lonely, craving constant attention from the people close to me, and so much more over the past couple of years. I have read all the Bible verses dealing with saddness and pain and crying out to God at least five times over the past year. But this... I don't even really know how to explain how it touched me. It was like Jesus talking directly to me. Hope you guys get something out of this...

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Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. --Matthew 5:3, NIV

There's this guy in my friend's youth group. I'll call him Joe. His life is a mess. Some music on his iPod is morally sketchy. Joe sneaks into R-rated movies and pops onto porn stes now and then. That's just the tip of the iceberg, my friend says. Joe doesn't pray or read his Bible. Some weeks, he hardly thinks about God at all.

He loves God, and he wants to follow Jesus, but he's not exactly good at following through. On top of that, Joe looks at the world around him and all he sees are war, disease, death, and destruction-- and it just makes him feel worse about life. It all makes him feel really sad some days, even depressed. When he really gets into a funk, he honestly wonders if life is worth living.

And Jesus comes along and says: "Joe, you are poor in spirit, and you are blessed because of it. God's kingdom is yours, my friend."

Joe's definitely poor in spirit. He knows he's a loser. And yet Jesus calls him blessed.

Doesn't make sense, does it? That's because in our culture, we're often told just the opposite. We're told we should have it together. We're told we should always feel good about ourselves. We should always be upbeat. We should always be happy. Happy, happy, happy!And we're told that people who are happy and healthy are normal, and people who are unhappy and unhealthy are not normal.

It's a lie. Don't believe it. If you do believe it, you're only going to spiral down into worse feelings, because you'll start thinking, I'm feeling sad, but I should be feeling happy, and it makes me even sadder that I can't be happy like everyone expects! Get sucked into that type of thinking, and you may never come out of it. It's a death spin.

But Jesus says that it's normal to feel really sad sometimes. It's normal to struggle with some messy problems. The world is a messed-up place-- there's lots of death, destruction, selfishness and evil out there. And that doesn't even count what's going on in our personal worlds, which sometimes include awful stuff like divorced parents, lonliness, breakups, drug abuse, and sexual abuse.

In fact, something is wrong with us if we don't feel really sad about life sometimes. It means we're not paying attention. That's why Jesus goes further and says it is blessed to feel deep sadness. When you do, it means you really understand that the world is all screwed up, and that your life is an utter mess, and that there really is no hope-- outside of Christ.

And that's the key that prevents us from spiraling out of control into the death spin. We need Jesus Christ more than we need anything else. And it is only when we are poor in spirit-- when we know we are spiritually poor, and when we feel the deep sadness of living in a tragic world-- that we can begin to see Jesus clearly. That's the Jesus who died on a cross, who literally feels our pain, who experiences the sadness and destruction of a world gone mad.

When we see that Jesus, it doesn't take long for us to see the Jesus who rose from his own death spiral and now grabs our hand and says, "Come on, we're outta here." And then he leads us back into this tragic world, which suddenly doesn't seem merely tragic. In the midst of all the tragedy, we gain eyes to see the quiet, hidden ways in which Jesus is filling the world with his love and grace.

Like he does with people like Joe. He embraces people like that, people who are poor in spirit. He tells us it's OK to feel miserable, and that despite what we may be feeling at the moment, this is the beginning of hope.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 5:12 pm


I.. that article really spoke to me there.. thank you for posting it, hyper-san... I really needed that... biggrin

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sist00rs

PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 12:28 pm


I actually just reread the whole thing. My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday, and I've been hurting. It always makes me just want to sing a song of praise when I'm reminded that God loves me even when I don't have it all put together, that he's close to the broken-hearted, that he just wants to hold me through it all and help me put my life together little bits at a time.
PostPosted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 6:13 pm


Oh... sad I'm sorry he broke up with you... sad I hope your heart heals soon... but I admire your spirit... 3nodding You're an inspiration, yup. 3nodding

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RioSamba_Rosa_

PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 1:31 pm


Thanks for posting, this has made my day a little more bearable today.
PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2008 7:26 pm


RioSamba_Rosa_
Thanks for posting, this has made my day a little more bearable today.


Yeah; I'm glad she posted it, too.. 3nodding How have you been doing...? neutral You sound like you've had a rough day... sad

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Fenwyn

PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 3:19 pm


Wow it's amazing how God works, I just joined this guild like two seconds ago and came right ot this article, and i was feeling everything that it talked about, ahh it's amazing, thank you so much for posting this!
PostPosted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 3:09 pm


Wow. This article really makes me feel better. I have been struggling with depression for a while now, and I am glad to know that it's normal to feel that way.

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