Even though people are imperfect, God finds in his heart to forgive.We should follow his example and forget about pain and suffering and look for happiness.I have found that if people forget what causes them to suffer then they will found in themselves happiness and relief and will then forgive..which is God's plan.If someone hurts me, I forgive them so my feelings dont go to hate. Hate is the very beginning of a corrupted soul,life without love has no meaning and hate causes suffering that why there are wars.Hate is what causes pain not for just you but for everyone.Sometime religion causes pain but in most religion is it not to be kind to everyone and to hate no one and accept.God doesn't give us a true sign of what is to come but to tell us that his love will guide mankind to happiness.