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iSitCrossLegged

PostPosted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 1:51 pm


I met this girl this year and we were really good friends easily, but lately she's becoming more violent, like punching and hitting me during Study Hall for no reason. And she once bashed a kids head into his locker for no reason, or as she put it "Just to hear the sound of the impact" I'm really worried because she's really overemotional when it comes to well.....everything. If she doesn't get her way, she becomes either angry or extremely depressed. And if we don't include her in everything she thinks she 'excluded'. Me and my best friend who is also friends with this girl have thought a lot about this. The friend has has an extremely rough past when she was at her old school. From what she's told us she almost committed suicide last year. At school she gets called a ton of names ant this affects her extremely. She's also been writing things like "I want to hear the crack of bones" and "I want to die" in her journal and on random sheets of paper. I don't know what to do. If we go to any adult she'll be like scary mad at us. If we don't get help, then she might sink even lower. Help!
PostPosted: Sat Jan 26, 2008 9:01 pm


Okay...first of all Im sorry for sounding kinda mean...><"

YOU HAVE TO GO SEE A FREAKING ADULT ABOUT THIS. biggrin If not this could get worse. I dont have much information of knowledge on this stuff but I believe you better tell an adult. If she nearly committed suicide last year how come she isnt seeing someone to help her right now? Try to talk to her, calm her down. She might be seeking attention. Get some clear backround info on what happened in the back. Read some psychology books? I mean The best choice would be to see an adult first of all. If you want some more deeeeep details on it feel free to pm me. Ill try to help you as much as possible. I have a tiny bit of experience with this myself. =D Go find help! ><"

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Sporty Math Nerd

PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 4:19 pm


Wow, I thought my friends had issues.

You need to anonymusly tell the counciler about it. One of my friends is violent, and the other's depressed, and when they need to talk to someone in a more private space than the cafeteria, they go to the counciler. And the counciler won't tell them who tipped them off, they will probably say they saw them acting weird in the hallway or something.

Good luck. heart
PostPosted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 6:09 pm


Me and my friend who isn't the one depressed have really considered the counselor idea, but just today the counselor asked to see her wrists (You know to look for cuts) and she got extremely mad and pissed off about it. And I don't exactly know how to send a tip off anonymously. And I'll try to pry some information out of her about her past soon. Thanks for all the advice!

iSitCrossLegged

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