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Green_HellFire Vice Captain
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 Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 5:12 pm
one pathedic attempt to start a new debate I know but at least I'm trying. my question is after all of life why is it so hard for a person to be alone for me as instance I had a good 5 best frieinds one being my fianccee but eventully 2 moved away... 1 I had one fight with she stoped talkign to me my fianccee and me had problems threw what I'm still not compleatly sure but we broke up now don't really talk to much at all and the final one my very best freind thats like a brother to me doesn't come home anymore and lives at work... so why is it so hard not to feel lonly even tho you still have other freinds and your family
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 12:03 pm
Because, in my opinio, when somebody is your friend they have a place in your heart, and when they leave you it leaves a gap in your heart that you have a desire to fill. I know, that's sounds really cheesy, but that's my opinion.
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Green_HellFire Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 5:35 pm
hey thats part of a debate and I understand that one but the fact is I know its true the thing is is filling that whole before depreasion comes thats the tricky part
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 6:00 pm
I know how that feels. I had five best friends too. One was my fiancee till we broke up. We don't talk much anymore. I wish we did tho. It feels like I'm losing him even more. One is in the military. HIs mom is a complete b***h. One moved away. One got pissed at me and I'm still not sure why. The last one is like my sister. We don't talk as much as we used too. I know she'd quit talking to me if she found out that I talk to him. Oh well on that, I want him back.
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Green_HellFire Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 6:12 pm
let what happens happen things are bound to get better eventully things may be fixed even if you don't expect it
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 6:17 pm
I want things to get fixed. I miss my friends. Especially one. I could tell him everything, and he would help me fix things. He's helped me be more than a shadow.
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Green_HellFire Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jan 30, 2008 6:23 pm
well you never know it may get fixed if not I'm sure there will be another
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 5:26 pm
i think its really hard to have one of your best friends be take'n by a friend you thought was a nice friend but then turns out to be some a** whole and made sure that the to of you never talked again then to find out the next year that a bunch of tornado's hit the area you last heard your friend was at and you have no way to find out if they are alive so it leaves a really big hole that makes you think why should i even deal with this pain its because nomatter what happens you always have some one there for you just cause your alone for now dose not mean your alone for the rest of your live just think in the future that you will find more people to have a place in your heart it only hurts cause you think you will end up replacing that place in your heart with someone else but take it from me once you formed that place in your heart for someone it never leaves and it never gets replaced no matter what you do its alll ways there ^_^
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Green_HellFire Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 6:00 pm
yea I ges I understand that.... it just makes it worse tho..... you push to keep somone in your life and it just falls apart.... each one person you lose leaves a whole in you small or big but the fact is after so many they really start to build.... not all of them heal
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Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 11:29 am
Green_HellFire, I guess it's the closeness knit with your 5 best friends and your brother...causing you to be very hard to be alone.... we homo sapiens are really not suppose to live as an individual where we have relationship and it form a networking of friends and family members...
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Posted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 5:31 pm
I guess it's hard to be alone cause you become close to your friends that it hurts more when you lose a friend. They take a place in your heart.
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Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 3:07 am
this is true we are made a social beings but still that doesnt' keep some from secluding themselves from others so I gess its either that you have to push on with whats going on or break and come to the point of hiding from the rest of life
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Green_HellFire Vice Captain
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