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nonameladyofsins

PostPosted: Sun Feb 03, 2008 4:55 pm


Ok so, I don't have a set of toys and goodies, I have a couple of props but mostly I need ideas for what my bf and I could do irl.

I'm dom and he's sub, and we're both new to this. Unfortuantely we don't have much space, we have the entierty of a basement, but please help me talk about roleplaying situations that we could go through.

I have a couple of props, mostly ties to tie him with, a thong I make him wear, and a large comb I spank him with.

Ideas?

I want this to be pg-13 so let's just talk about situational bdsm and not sexual. I need more help with the former.
PostPosted: Sat Mar 15, 2008 5:01 am


I think that part of the reason you're not getting any replies is that what you two do together is so very individual. It's a bit like asking "What should we do in bed? We have a bed, and some condoms." I can't tell from your post how involved the two of you are. Is this a 24/7 relationship? Do you restrict your play to the bedroom? Are you heavily into S&M or are you more into Domination and submission? Do you just want to play Nasty School Teacher and Frightened Little Boy?

Go download a fetish checklist from the net, and go through it together. As for toys - meh, I've got a couple of thousand dollars worth, and we never use them.

My only real suggestion, and I know you won't like it, is - if you don't know how to be a Domme, stop trying. Find an experienced Dom/me who is willing to train *you*. Lots of deaths and serious injuries happen every year from people who are new to the scene and jump into it headfirst.

fioce


greyhoundbus

PostPosted: Thu Jun 05, 2008 10:15 am


fioce
I think that part of the reason you're not getting any replies is that what you two do together is so very individual. It's a bit like asking "What should we do in bed? We have a bed, and some condoms." I can't tell from your post how involved the two of you are. Is this a 24/7 relationship? Do you restrict your play to the bedroom? Are you heavily into S&M or are you more into Domination and submission? Do you just want to play Nasty School Teacher and Frightened Little Boy?

Go download a fetish checklist from the net, and go through it together. As for toys - meh, I've got a couple of thousand dollars worth, and we never use them.

My only real suggestion, and I know you won't like it, is - if you don't know how to be a Domme, stop trying. Find an experienced Dom/me who is willing to train *you*. Lots of deaths and serious injuries happen every year from people who are new to the scene and jump into it headfirst.


I can just agree to fioce... it can even be dangerous, if you don't know your limits as a dom, or the limits of your sub, so before you starts anything, find out what you like and talk about it.
and for ideas, later on, in tool markets you can find a lot of stuff you could use for playing, but first, like fioce said already find out what you like... use your fantasy wink
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