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 Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 10:08 am
I would love them completely, if it weren't for the following:
Grandmother: Have favorites. Talks too much and in a rude way. Going into the "I've gotten so old, Im losing my sanity". Makes us, the children have chores(which I'm not used to because I used to just do my chores without any guidance up until we moved back into her house). Hypocritical.
Grandfather: Have favorites.
Auntie Melissa: b***h. b***h. b***h. SHE GIVES A WHOLE NEW MEANING TO THE SIGN CANCER!!!
Cousin, Nicco: Does something to people that they don't like, but when it's done to him, he bitches.
Cousin, E.J: Ever since he started school he's been a smart a**.
Cousin, Ciana: Just because she's the only baby girl (since Im the oldest) she's been spoiled like there's no tomorrow. And she's the favorite. They all think she's cute and s**t, but she's going to turn into a little slut.
I hate me family.
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Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 9:15 pm
You can hate them, but they're still family. You share the same blood, but it doesn't mean love will be mutual. You have to earn something like that, even if it's family. They hurt just like you do, their blood is as red as yours. That doesn't mean they'll be the angel you may or may not be. I find it easier to just go with the flow. My family leaves me alone if I leave them alone. Some people just like to scream and shout over nothing, or show how superior they might think they are.
I guess you would probably sell them if you could though, huh? You can pick who you love in your family, but you can't pick who your family is.
Think of it this way, they're paying the bills right now. Be happy for that at least. You're a freshman, right? You only have so many more years to endure before you move out, compared to the amount you've had to endure since you were born three or four years isn't too bad.
If worse come to worse I suppose you could... actually I don't think you want to do that. Never mind.
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 1:03 pm
I dont care if they are family. They shouldn't be doing the things they do like being hypocritical and having favorites. That is wrong. I leave them alone. But they wont leave me alone.
Well, I wouldn't be having this problem if we weren't forced to leave our old house. And as for the bills, my mom has her share of money going to them. It's not like we're living here freely.
That's why I told my mom that once we have our own house, and Im done with college, I'm leaving and never moving back in. They've even pushed me to the point that I was telling myself "I love my family" as if I was trying to convince myself.
I also decided that Im going to be a better mother/grandmother to my children.
And Im not a freshmen... >.<
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Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 3:57 pm
You'll probably end up having favorites, too. I don't think favorites is too much of a problem. That's just me though. For me love is love, as long as I get even a drop I'm fine, because that's all I've ever gotten. As for hipocrisy, that's really common. Maybe they know what kind of path your beliefs and such might take you because they've gone down it too, and they don't want you to suffer like them. Love can come in the form of hate, it's odd but true. I'm fine just being noticed at all.
Ahh, that isn't good, huh? (I try not to use cursing, that's why some sentences look odd.) Well you have a roof at least. Might not be a roof you like but a roof is a roof.
If you really don't like somthing go ahead and say it. Don't convince yourself to think opposite of what you feel. It will kill you, literally and un-literally. It's doing the very same to me now. Some people never bother to see their relative again after leaving home, if that's how you want to do things go ahead. I'm probably going to do the same. My reasons are different from yours though... It's better if they don't get too involved with my future.
Whether you're a freshman or not you still have less years to college than you did a few years ago. Work with what you're dealt. No one has a perfectly ideal life. At least, not from other peoples points of view.
I think of it this way... You have a reason to be as emo as you want... My life is pretty good. I choose to be as I am because I don't want an ideal life. What's better? Struggling as a child and knowing how to deal with it later on, or living perfectly happy as a child and not knowing for to deal with misfortune. I pick the latter, my family doesn't.
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Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 7:07 am
I think that they are still family no matter what. When you really need it, they will stick by you and give support.
But it's natural to get annoyed with family, coz unlike friends, there is that age barrier. I always get annoyed with my sister. My fav member of the family is the dog xp
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 4:50 pm
No they wont. They tease me.
Seriously? Is the dog cute? LOL.
My aunt's being a b***h again. And it's her birthday. Mymom bought her a cake, and it says "Happy Birthday Melissa! We luv U! From: All of us." I asked my mom why we put lies on her cake.
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 7:50 pm
Holy ******** s**t.
SERUIOUSLY?!
My grandma needs to SHUT THE ******** UP.
My cousin and her got into another fight, so my mom took us to our uncle's. Then when we came back, she had the ******** nerve to tell my cousin that instead of her coming upstairs and telling him what she wants him to do, he should go downstairs and ask what she wants him to do. WHAT KIND OF ******** LOGIC IS THAT?! SHE NEVER ******** LEARNS.
I don't care if you think I'm being disrespectful. Because I am. I have no respect for this woman. And you better know the freaking difference between having respect and having good manners when you start freakin' bashing me.
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Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 7:43 am
darn... im already starting to hate your aunt and ur grandma... stare ...
at least... you love your parents, right?? sweatdrop ..
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Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 5:49 pm
lol, I love my mom. I've only seen my dad once, so I don't know...
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Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 5:53 pm
OMG, so my grandparents and my mom went out of town for a few hours, leaving early in the day. My cousin, who is 15, left after them. Of course he told me he was leaving, but I didn't ask when he was coming back, or looked at the clock.
So my grandma and mom interrogate me on my cousin's whereabouts when they come back. They were like "What time did he leave?" Am I supposed to check the damn clock everytime he shuts the door? Then they were like "Don't you know when he's coming back?" Am I his mom?! WHAT THE HELL?!
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:53 pm
well did he come back yet?......
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 1:19 pm
Be happy once you grow up more you can leave the house and everyone you hate. Then become successful at what you want to do and then they come crying back for money. From there you laugh at them and shut the door on their faces.....that's what I'm going to do.
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 2:59 pm
@Aku: He came back just to get some clothes because he was going to sleep over at a friend's house. lol
@renji: True. But I'm not that mean. I mean...I'll help them, I just won't like doing it. mrgreen
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 3:08 pm
But you do have a mean side.....that's true. I think you and your family should sit down and hopefully have a calm and not screaming talk of what everyone is doing and you think is wrong.
I did with my family, I told them what I saw and what I think is wrong and they did the same to me.....and now we are all better.
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 6:53 pm
Well I can't do that with my family. They have too much pride. I'm thinking that's where I got it from. I've also gotten stubborness...bitchyness....all sorts of things. I just can't make myself better than them(unless in acedemics, that's totally different. biggrin )
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