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 Posted: Tue Feb 12, 2008 10:24 pm
How do you know if you're poly?
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Posted: Thu Feb 14, 2008 4:13 pm
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Posted: Thu Feb 21, 2008 3:24 pm
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Posted: Thu Feb 21, 2008 3:26 pm
I think that polyamorous refers more to a sort of lifestyle than a sexuality, in that you choose to have more than one intimate, loving relationship with all partners aware of it. So...I guess you can say you know you are "poly" if you have the capacity to do such?
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Posted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 6:24 pm
You know you're poly when you have a very encompassing love for more than one person. It's more than random hookups, poly means you are capable of having deep caring for more than a single Significant Other. Well.. that's polyamorous, anyway. If you're polysexual, that just means you like screwing anything. biggrin Which... ahem... can have its pros and cons.
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 1:57 pm
I guess it kind of comes to you.
At the moment I am in two very loving relationships.
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 4:54 pm
I would assume you would just know. Like as for myself, I feel that it is better to have one relationship.
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 5:15 pm
I think for some people it is quite possible to fall in love with more than one person, but it can often lead to very complicated relationships and difficulty in evenly distributing time, so on and so forth. From my experiences it has been complicated and heart wrenching at times, I think it is almost better to remain monogamous unless EVERY partner is 100% okay with sharing. They may say they are fine with it, even when they aren't. It's just something to be careful with.
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 5:31 pm
Lady Sabattica I think for some people it is quite possible to fall in love with more than one person, but it can often lead to very complicated relationships and difficulty in evenly distributing time, so on and so forth. From my experiences it has been complicated and heart wrenching at times, I think it is almost better to remain monogamous unless EVERY partner is 100% okay with sharing. They may say they are fine with it, even when they aren't. It's just something to be careful with.
I think you'd also have to be 100% sure you can handle. It's probably hard to be that sure. You don't want to find yourself being torn or feeling unable to provide enough love and caring for both/all of them.
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 5:47 pm
Messenger_Of_The_Moon Lady Sabattica I think for some people it is quite possible to fall in love with more than one person, but it can often lead to very complicated relationships and difficulty in evenly distributing time, so on and so forth. From my experiences it has been complicated and heart wrenching at times, I think it is almost better to remain monogamous unless EVERY partner is 100% okay with sharing. They may say they are fine with it, even when they aren't. It's just something to be careful with.
I think you'd also have to be 100% sure you can handle. It's probably hard to be that sure. You don't want to find yourself being torn or feeling unable to provide enough love and caring for both/all of them.Definitely, you need to realize what you're doing and what the plan is before you get into such things. For me, it just sort of happened, which led to many complications.
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 7:33 pm
Allow me to add to the above: excellent time-management skills beyond the romantic distribution of said time.
I recommend a day planner of some description, or some sort of dry-erase board.
It sounds like a joke, and yet, is not. A mystery I give thee.
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 6:32 am
Our guys is talking about making a schedule. A schedule, for God's sake!
It could work with them, however, I'm not sure if it's right with me. They are definitely the sort of couple who prefers being in a relationship with three people. My only problem is that I'm still not sure if I want romance at all, much less with two people. And I don't know what's appropriate and what's not. Is it bad (for instance) if I don't like sleeping in a separate bed in the same house when they are both sleeping together? I prefer us all three in the same bed (unless someone isn't feeling well or having trouble sleeping or whatnot) and theirs is big enough.
Despite the guy's insistence on scheduling time for both of us, there's really no problem there. She and I spend time together during the day and we enjoy our time with him together and both get enough attention. He only thinks of the whole schedule thing because I was upset once when I was worried she'd ask for me to leave.
Anyway, that's just a little on why I asked.
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Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 11:21 am
I require poly relationships usually. I get bored really quickly so more than one person in my life calms me down and doesn't get me stressed out. Right now I'm only in one relationship but we've been together for years and we understand each, so no problems. heart to my woman heart
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