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 Posted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:18 am
Some of you might have been vaugly aware of my 7+ year relationship.
Well, he threw me out of the house about a month ago, because I "read too much" and he doesn't think I love him. Then he called me totaly stupid drunk right after Valentines to yell at me for not calling for valentines. He also accused me of cheating on him during the first 6 months we went out, said he was using me for my money, and threatened to call the police on me if my familly came to help me move my furniture out. He was drunk most of the time when insulting me.
Thing is, I think I'm an idiot because after all the mean things he said, and even though it's been over a month.... I'm still waiting for him to call and apologize. I know that realisticly, that's not going to happen but some little part of me keeps hoping he will.
And it's stupid, because I know I don't need him, and I'm more than likely better off living by myself anyway... But I still love him and it hurts so much.
Don't worry guys, I'm not that stupid... I've got an apartment lined up and am just waiting for the renovations to finish before moving in. My stuff's all in storage, and my friend's giving me a kitty for company. Even if he calls, I'm not going back unless he's sober and in therapy.
I just can't figure out why he did it. I thought everything was ok, aside from all the over time I'd gotten stuck working lately cutting into my time with him.
And I can't help but wonder if it's something I did or didn't do.
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Posted: Sun Mar 09, 2008 1:06 am
My friend decided to keep her kitty, but that's ok...
I rescued the sweetest little stray tabby you've ever seen...
Mom and dad swear it's a girl, but
I've never seen a girl cat with balls before. Guess I'll have to take him to the vet to prove I'm right.
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 7:16 am
Well I am glad to hear that you are not completely destroyed by being thrown out. It really sucks when people decide to turn on you like that. But at least you are level headed about it. Which means that you will find another some day.
O.O a girl with balls... maybe it is some kind of new kitty.
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 2:04 am
Oh I was a total wreck for a while.... but I hide it pretty well. No point in letting someone like that know how well they managed to acomplish their intended aim.
Besides, Tsunami is cheering me up. Yes, I named the kitty after a natural disaster, so abviously my sense of humor made it through alright.
I also figure that with so much of my life changing now would be a great time to go for broke and get that better job I've been whining over.
Appearantly the local At&t call center pays realy well, considering all you do is awnser phones and provide customer service. And the odds of a discruntled customer spitting at me are a whole lot lower there. It would be nice to have a regular every weekend off job.
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 7:23 am
Well I don't doubt that, but you kept your wreckedness inside of you and did not let it affect your outside world too much.
Anyway kitties are awesome for cheering people up. whee especially ones named after natural disasters.
Getting a better job is always a good thing. Just as long as you stay out of the customer support division. ninja those people are evil. They slowly try and break your mind down. But personally I wish I had a weekday or two off. having the weekend off sucks because all the errands and stuff I want to do on the weekend is not open.
3nodding anyway good luck with the job hunt. whee and give the tsunami a hug for me too whee
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 2:10 pm
Sorry your boyfriend lost his marbles on you, but perhaps if he has gone nutters it is better for you not to be around him in case it could go very badly for you indeed.
As for your kitty, that's nice you've got one to occupy you. I heard something interesting the other day, the cat in the house I'm in right now once had a kitten with a raccoon. O_o; I had never heard they could do that before.
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 10:19 am
*hugs* I'm glad you're doing okay. heart That really sucks, I'm sorry.
But yay kitties! Kitties > People. :3 And we had a tabby we were certain was a boy too...until, y'know, she had kittens. XD
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Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 12:23 am
Well, on the up side, I don't have two sets of breeders yelling for grandbabies anymore. I can read as long as I want to, if I can manage to still get to work on time, and I'm going to have my own private bathroom.
What more could you need? mrgreen
*hugs the Tsunami for Xeno.*
I'm debating dropping all the rp guilds I joined at his request.. He's not been on gaia in over a year, but it might be good to make the preempitve avoidance move now.
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Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 7:22 am
whee Yay kitty hugs.
3nodding own private bathrooms are important. I like having one stare stupid ungrateful roommate.
It is good to know that alone time is very good most of the time.
And having only one set of breeders yelling at you is a lot less annoying than two for sure. 3nodding everyone wins.
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Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 12:58 am
Well, Friday night after work I got all the way home before I realized I'd left my cellphone at work...
So not being about to do anything about it until we reopened, I came in here and got on line.
Come to find out when I got my phone back he'd called me 11 times from 2am to 4am...freaky.
So when he called saturday, I awnsered to find out what was so important.
He was bored and I was the only person he knows that would be awak that late. He said he only called so many times because he thought I was hanging up on him..(I don't have voice mail) and then wanted to know why i took MY airconditioner with me...
Sigh... It was kinda nice talking to him, and we didn't argue, but if he keeps up with the freaky amount of calls in short times thing, I might go get a restraining order. stressed
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Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 7:31 am
I think the reason why you took your air conditioner would be an obvious one but ummm yeah.
But it is good that there is no fighting or arguing going on. But seriously he should start to live his own life again. But restraining orders are fun xp
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