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kingremnant3

PostPosted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 12:17 pm


Yeah, this is really no longer relevant... anyway, things are going well so there really isn't a point for this post anymore.

Anyway, thank you to those who have given me advice! You guys are awesome!

(and the guild moderators can feel free to delete this post. Thanks again!)
xd
PostPosted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 2:51 am


It's a tough one. I mean, this stuff is hard enough without the whole "in the closet" / homophobia stuff looming above. But in the end - especially if you have been waiting for years - go at it. What's the worst that can happen? He says no (ok, the worst is, he says no in a really horrible way). But would you really be off worse than you are now?

I voted for the "date" approach, but I could as well have voted "tell him directly". Either way, don't wait too long - what for? To create a big friendship based on lies and half-truth and then have it all come crashing down? If he wants you too, no sense in wasting time. If he doesn't, get the bad news out and over with.

Orvil Pym


ShutMeUp17

PostPosted: Sun May 04, 2008 1:08 pm


Be friends with his close friends and ask them about him, if he's straight say something like: "Oh...seriously? Whenever I talk to him he seems really out of it," and if he is gay say something like: "Is that why whenever I talk to him he acts weirdly?" Or..something like that.

I wouldn't have any experience in this since I'm not out of the closet yet ( =C ), so if it seems childish to do that, I wouldn't deny it.

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What makes 1st friend's advice so interesting is that she has a crush on me, and was crushed when I came out to her. I'm beginning to wonder if she's just saying these things to subconsciously "get back at me" if that makes any sense. But who knows?


I think she realizes what she's doing. I bet she is just trying to ruin your hopes for her own selfish desires. Straighties, who understands them?
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