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 Posted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 9:44 pm
I find it hard to talk to new people, and I am terrified of new groups. When I went to my college classes, I used to feel really uncomfortable so I kept to myself like it was my job. I'm afraid to get a job because I am afraid of putting myself into a situation where I have to interact with people. However, recently, I have been trying to talk to people I don't know. Granted they are online, but I think it's a step, and that it's a step that counts.
What is something you try to overcome?
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 9:36 am
IM trying to overcome almost the exact same thing .... I am terrified of trying to get a job for fear that they wont like me and not give me the job or that they will like me then ill have to deal with a whole bunch of strangers AHHHH gonk Fear is a big part of my life. I do take anti depressants and sometimes it helps but not all the time. With my situation right now i am in just that situation and i am FREAKING out. I cried myself to sleep last night because i was so freaking scared of what may come in the next few weeks. *sigh* im such a wuss
I am not asking for sympathy just stating a fact.
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 11:56 am
I'm trying to overcome weight issues, sleep apnea and relationship issues. I haven't been heavy all my life,but the last 10 years I have been putting it on and I don't like it .. but it's how I deal with things. I keep everything in so food's my comfort. It's hard, since it's mostly emotional related. Started after a really really bad relationship happened with a guy and I'm still not over it. I think that's why I have the weight - it protects me from getting close to people. Yet, I'm also scared to death to be alone.
I'm also tired all the time, never sleep well and almost certain it's sleep apnea, which I know isn't good for the heart amongst other issues .... but I do have a sleep study coming up on Monday which I'm looking forward to.
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 4:59 pm
I also have relationship issues. I don't have the answer to why, but it is difficult for me. Almost all of my relationships have only lasted for 3-6 months and I have ended every one of them. I find a reason to get out, I think it has something to do with a fear of commitment or that my father walked out of my life and I have not seen him for 17 years. I am not sure what it is. I have jumped from relationship to relationship until recently, when I decided to focus on making my life happy first. I have been out of a relationship for 9 months, but now my scenario has changed. Now I fear that I will always be alone and no one will be "Good" enough for me. I find that people I am interested in have no interest in me and people that are interested in me, I have no interest in. I hate feeling this way, but I have not found out how to change it yet. I feel like I am rambling now, but I felt compelled to put a piece about me in here, so here it is. Hope I did not bore anyone or whatever, I guess I have been in a "MOOD" Sorry and I hope that things get better for me smile
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