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 Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 10:51 pm
So basically, this is a thread about whether or not you would sacrifice a dear friendship for the chance at a relationship.
I'm not going to bother adding a poll, things like this aren't always at a, "yes or no" level of simplicity.
Personally, although this might be odd for a guy, I would not sacrifice a dear friendship for a relationship. There's two girls I know that I can talk with as just friends. If one of them asked for a relationship, it would just be plain awkward.
I mean seriously, why should gender difference lead to only relationships? We're all humans, friendships shouldn't just be between those of the same gender in my opinion.
What about you, readers of this thread? Would you sacrifice a friendship for a relationship?
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Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 9:23 pm
Otfee So basically, this is a thread about whether or not you would sacrifice a dear friendship for the chance at a relationship. I'm not going to bother adding a poll, things like this aren't always at a, "yes or no" level of simplicity. Personally, although this might be odd for a guy, I would not sacrifice a dear friendship for a relationship. There's two girls I know that I can talk with as just friends. If one of them asked for a relationship, it would just be plain awkward. I mean seriously, why should gender difference lead to only relationships? We're all humans, friendships shouldn't just be between those of the same gender in my opinion. What about you, readers of this thread? Would you sacrifice a friendship for a relationship?
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 7:44 pm
I would. D:
Most of my guy friends are really flexible, when it comes to me.
I'm not pretty, I'm too smart, I grew up with my three brothers, but I'm try my best to be a good friend to them.
I got a huge crush on one of them. D:
He is gay, sort of... More like confused, I think.
I told him I liked him,
He quickly said that it was sorry for being so pretty which made me laugh~
Now, after fighting over different, stupid things, and then getting into one HUGE fight that left us not talking for five months,
We're great friends. C:
'course we're the kind of people that love dirty jokes.
I remember I was designing a car that would look like a lady bug,
and he asked if I could make a car that would look like him,
And I said I would be a distraction to the other drivers; much too sexy.
EVEN after we had that huge fight,
He was still telling people that story. x3
granted, we're mostly net friends, he lives about thirty minutes from me,
And we were ABOUT to go to the same highschool,
But then he stood up to his dad and his dad kicked him out and he lives with his mom,
Now.
still get to see him at orchestra things, though...
He knows some of my buddies in the band where he used to go to school and where I now take percussion lessons,
And they're like
"You're the chick who said that? :'D"
And bam. We're completely bounced back from all weirdness.
I actually like one of my sort-of-friends, right now.
He's a loser.
D:
We have a lot in common.
He's always smiling at me or waving at me,
Just to be friendly, since my gay best friend was his gay best friend,
and my gay best friend was always saying how awesome I am.
A different gay best friend than the one above, mind you...
>____________>;
Any way, my plan, if I end up staying in public schooling with this certain boy,
Is to become friends with him.
And THEN stop trying to be his friend and more like a girlfriend.
its fullproof.
3:<
except for I might not be going to the same school.
But there will be other boys, there.
Who I plan to make friends with, because its easier for me to relate with boys rather than girls.
I know that's weird.
especially since I own THIS guild in particular.
But I like games like Halo and Call Of Duty and Guitar Hero and I like talking about cars and game systems and video games and computers.
I rarely feel the need to talk about clothes or paint my bitten nails. D:
butwhenIdoIcomehere.x3
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Posted: Tue Apr 29, 2008 3:02 pm
Aww crap... I forgot what I was going to say. x///x;;
Sometimes dating a friend, out of love isn't really a bad thing. Or dating them even without love. Love in a romantic way isn't always part of the equation in love. I once heard from somewhere that it is always good to marry some like your best friend, someone you trust, and can converse with. Sometimes it might not work out and well at least you both tried. One can only hope even after the disaster called break up the two can still be friends. The gender is a I don't know for me. oO
Personally I would risk a dear friendship for a relationship. If the person is my dear friend then they should be able to forgive, not necessarily forget the incident of break up and continue to be friends. Also before agreeing to a relationship I would ask the person if they believed that even if we broke up our relationship as friends would still continue. Sometimes love between friends does develop first through friendship and getting to know each other that way.
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