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 Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 8:10 pm
Sorry, I just truly need to vent.
I have this friend,one of my BEST friends actually. She is 2-3 years younger than me. She is apparently a lesbian...most of the time?
I have this Ex-Boyfriend. He is still one of my best friends. Do you see where this is going?
I still have feelings for this as we only broke up 2 weeks ago. He apparently still had feelings for me (as he hinted) so I was less into the whole get over him thing as I usually am on top of that.
Well him and my best friend, let's call her Barbie (=P it's a name that comes to mind) started a band together, with a couple others. I figured "Oh, it's cool. She's 3 years younger, Lez, and has a crush on someone else (she had talked about) anyway." I guess I was wrong.
They met at a band meeting or whatever, and talked for a while where he mentioned he liked her. She said she kinda liked him back. The next day They are going out. Then, she tells me about it and asks if I'm mad. I tell her I'm not. I kinda lied. =[ Every time I go over and she talks to him I feel like I have to puke I'm so sad/stressed out. I know it's stupid but I feel a little betrayed y'know? Any helpful comments would be great! Sorry 'bout the 'emoness' or w/e I'll prolly be over it by Friday XP I just needed to vent
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Posted: Wed Apr 09, 2008 9:24 am
Well I think you should talk to her and tell her the truth about how you really feel. If she knew you had just finished breaking up with him she should have waited or at least ask you if it was ok.
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Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 4:10 am
Tell her exactly how you feel.
If she's really you're friend,
Then she will back off...I've been in a
Similar situation...where I had a crush on
A guy for a long time...and then he asked
Out one of my friends, and she said yes.
Then, when she saw how much it upset me,
She broke up with him...and eventually he
And I went out...and it was a messy relationship,
But the point is that she backed off since she cared.
As well, though, if she doesn't back off,
Then you also should be a friend and not
Try to take her happiness away from her...
Sure, she wouldn't be being a great friend for
Dating your ex...but you could still be a good friend to her.
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Posted: Sat Apr 19, 2008 10:10 pm
i think you should definately tell her how u feel!! dude frie dnt do that to friends... back stabbing is not cool!! i had a friend that did that once and i explained to her how i felt and she didnt care so i told her to go f*** herself!! lets hope your friend is better then mine was, but did u ever think maybe she did it cuz she wants to be like u, like maybe she looks up to u sorta thing, meh i dont know sad sorry i couldnt help sad
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Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 7:33 pm
FantacY LiquiD FirE69 i think you should definately tell her how u feel!! dude frie dnt do that to friends... back stabbing is not cool!! i had a friend that did that once and i explained to her how i felt and she didnt care so i told her to go f*** herself!! lets hope your friend is better then mine was, but did u ever think maybe she did it cuz she wants to be like u, like maybe she looks up to u sorta thing, meh i dont know sad sorry i couldnt help sad I agree with her she is younger than you and she could look up to you as a role model But i wouldnt know since this kind of thing hasnt happened to me before dramallama
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Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 1:34 pm
I've had something simmilar happen once, it kindof sucked, but y'know, life goes on. Online hugs aren't as fantabulous as real ones but... *hugs*. Lawl.
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 8:11 am
I had a similar problem recently.
I was dating a girl, we broke up of good terms after 6 months. Though some feelings were still there. No more than a week later she dating a friend her and I met together. She never did bother to ask me, neither of them did. And I never said anything. It's all fine now, my stomach doesn't hurt when I think about them anymore but it took a while.
So, I guess my advice here would be to just let her be happy, no sense in starting drama that can be prevented.
But if it bothers you badly enough that you need something to change quickly by all means try, but depending on the kind of person she is you could end up pushing a friend away instead of getting what you want out of it.
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 7:40 pm
yea i think u should tell her how u really feel cuz if shes a real friend then she'll understand her feelings
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Posted: Wed Aug 20, 2008 12:19 pm
Tell her how you feel and let her know that it bothers you. If she is as good as a friend as you say she is she, maybe she will back off a little. Good luck and hope everything works out.
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Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 8:12 am
Dude, That is not okay.
You need to march right up to him(them)
and confront ur best friend first. Ask her what the hell is she doing.
If she says she is lez than she should stick with her choice.
Personally If she is like this i would say she wasn't a very good friend.
Friends don't go for they bff's Ex.
That is just wrong, unless they ask and you say it's okay.
If it were me I would be really furious at my best friend.
Then I would get mad at the guy for leading me on then turning his back on me for my best friend..I don't know how I would deal with this though.
Just some advise confront her, if it doesn't go well, Ignore her.
-PG~ heart
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 7:10 pm
Er, whether you solved this issue or not, just tell her you felt ticked.
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Posted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 5:19 pm
A-P-P-L-E-- (If you are taken.)
B-L-U-E-B-E-R-R-Y--(If you absolutly adore someone.)
B-A-N-A-N-A-- (If you are confused.)
C-H-E-R-R-Y--(If you like someone but not sure how they feel about you.)
G-R-A-P-E-- (If your single.)
L-E-M-O-N-- (If you have given up.)
P-E-A-C-H-- (If there's no point in liking the person you like.)
P-I-N-E-A-P-P-L-E-- (If your just taking life as it comes.)
M-A-N-G-O -- ( If you love someone and they say they love you but you dont find they showing it)
S-T-R-A-W-B-E-R-R-Y--(If you like someone and they like you but you're not going out.)
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