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 Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 2:52 pm
I wanna walk in the open wind.
I wanna kiss like lovers do.
Alright. I want to hear absolutely everything you'd love/hate in a Dominant. Even if you already have one, try to put into words just what it is you love about them so much. ;3
For Dommes I'm with (though it's really only my love, now), I prefer them to tease and be a bit of a sadist... yes, lots of teasing is amazing. Orgasm denial, all that fun stuff. But I don't like this "cruel" bullshit. Nope, they have to actually know what they're doing and care about what happens to me. Sure, being called/mostly treated as a "plaything" is fun, but don't forget I'm a human! I wanna dive into your ocean.
Is it raining with you?
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 3:48 pm
Well the perfect Domme for me, well one thing, know that I do have a life and a job that I will have to forcus on when there, but every other time and with the job I am there's I will serve them to any means nessecary to please them and only them. To be there toy, as I have done before and can do it again, give up my on control, its how I have seen, grown and become apart of life, as I fairly rarely say no to anything.
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 3:51 pm
I wanna walk in the open wind.
I wanna kiss like lovers do.
*nodnods* Of course. There are some things you can't help but place above her, for your own well-being. Otherwise, you wouldn't be able to do the aforementioned things for her. :3I wanna dive into your ocean.
Is it raining with you?
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 3:55 pm
Agreed, I see myself as a push over though so I can be made to litrally do most things for them redface
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 4:01 pm
I wanna walk in the open wind.
I wanna kiss like lovers do.
Well, there's nothing wrong with wanting to serve them as much as possible. heart I wanna dive into your ocean.
Is it raining with you?
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 4:06 pm
Indeed there isn't 3nodding but the last time I had a girlfriend who was interested with S&M but more with Bondage, I gave up submission to her and well she did not know what to do with me.
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 4:10 pm
I wanna walk in the open wind.
I wanna kiss like lovers do.
Ah. The problem's that even vanillas like to partake in a few different bits of the many pieces of BDSM. Gotta be careful to find one who likes as much of the big picture as you do.I wanna dive into your ocean.
Is it raining with you?
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 4:13 pm
Yes that is what I am indeed looking for, as I am single but around my area of living despite being in the UK find a dominant like that, and in the UK is very very slim!
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 4:18 pm
Hmmmm. My ideal dom know's the perfect balance needed between hard sadism and affection/compassion. He know just what I like for playing as well as when outside of "the bedroom." He serves his own desires as well as my own and can be a bit harsh at times, but knows just the way to show me he still loves and cares for me in every way. He will see that I am not an object, but a human and his girlfriend as well as pet. He respects me and what I am comfortable or uncomfortable with and he is faithful and honest. ^^ Im sure I could ramble for hours, but I'll cut it off at that.
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 2:06 pm
Awwww, how cute. x3 That's basically how I feel about Steph~
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 6:44 am
What I love:
Intelligent, caring, cruel during play, with a similar sense of humor to myself, tallness, a love of controlling things he shouldn't (again, only during play), lecturing during play.
What I hate:
Stupidity, lack of concern outside of play, wanting to control things which he has no right to, lecturing as though I'm a child.
There's quite a bit both ways.
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Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 2:51 pm
*noddles* Good to know what you like and don't like, though.
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Posted: Thu Apr 17, 2008 9:11 am
A good Dom. It's hard to say what I really like, I know bitting is a big thing, I do enjoy the thought of being called certain things. But of course it depends on the tone and time, Sadly in real person im overly shy, Thus I have avoided many things, Making decisions for me is a good thing. I love having someone choose for me, It gives me a reason to say no and make things interesting in my eyes. It's very complicated, I know what I like but when it comes to putting it down, Well I can't really do it.
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Posted: Fri Apr 18, 2008 12:29 pm
Teehee STEALING My Domme's format because I'm on her comp. She is my fav gal. Wonton Womanizer.
In a Dominant I love Sadist mor ethan anything, in the bedroom I'm a switch but when I want to be submissive I like FORCED submission. A dominant who is not afraid to hurt me is always nice, but explores my boundries. Safety Words are always up around me, because I change sometimes. So a flexable Dominant is good, though after I LOVE to cuddle. Being called names is okay, doesn't really do anything for me though.
Still when I want a Dominant, I want a DOMINANT. IF you know what I mean. >.<
[Kinky Toothbrush's Mule]
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Imaginary Marionette Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Apr 19, 2008 11:51 am
My ideal dom/me (since in theory, I could have either) is as follows. And will probably be a rather long ramble.
Someone who loves me and knows how to show it, and respects my wishes. But someone who is willing to push my boundaries as long as it's not to a breaking point, and someone who will take care of me and indulge my insane swings of mood. Someone who is a hardcore sadist to match my massive masochism, but still affectionate and tender, so I can trust them. Someone who knows me as a person but loves me as a person and a pet. Someone who understands when I can't be submissive, but enjoys it when I can, and someone who in general puts up with me and maybe even likes all my quirks. Someone who shares the same fetishes as me, of course, meaning their tastes swing more towards pain and mental play then humiliation and sex. Someone who would do nearly anything to keep me safe, in return for knowing that I would do nearly anything to keep them happy. Someone who wants a relationship (and is willing to work for it), and not just a quick ******** when it's convenient. 'cuz love and pain go hand in hand for me.
Heh.. sorry for the longness of that.
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