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This is a tough situation. confused
Its hard to give advice,with out knowing more about you and your family/community. But I would say that, this ones really up to you. As much as I would like to say you should come out, I can't.

I believe its easier to come out with support from family and friends. But at the same time you can only go though life for so long living a lie. I also think regardless of the support you may or may not get, you will on one level or another feel very relived.

If it was your friends you had this problem with, the answer would be simple. They are not much of a friend if they cant accept you for who you are. But your family are in your life, for life. And it would not be wise to burn your bridges with them, unless there was no other choice.

You don't have to come out to every one all at once. Is there a family member you think will take it better? An aunt, or cousin maybe? If you could come out to someone that knows you and your family better, they would be able to give you better advice, and even telling that one person will make you feel better and more confident about yourself.

Sorry I could not be of more help. Good Luck smile