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sweety_honey Vice Captain
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 Posted: Tue May 06, 2008 11:15 pm
As you all know I was involved in a car accident back in February, which has changed the way in which I live. I no longer stress out about the little things in life. Based on, I really didnt know if I would be coming home from the hospital alive or at least functional. cry
Anyway, Heen-san and I decided that we werent going to put off our 6+ year engagement any longer and that we were going to get married this summer. heart heart 4laugh 4laugh
We have also been talking about the possiblity of trying for a baby maybe sometime next year after I finish up my college.... it just seems like a BIG decision, with our youngest being almost 7 years old, and the two oldest girls being 18 and 14. twisted
We would like to eventually have the house to ourselves, travel, and grow old together, but I wonder question question is this really even possible if we have anothre baby.... question question
Just thought I would vent to other parents and see what your thoughts on this would be.... sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri May 09, 2008 11:07 am
Wow that is a big decision.
I don't know everyone is diffrient.
For me I don't think I want another one I only have one daughter who just turned 11. I know it's bad but I love my freedom.
I had to watch a 2 year old still in diapers this past week and it confermed for me I didn't want anymore right now.
Dosn't meen in the future I won't possibly think about it tho.
If your thinking about then that's cool and you said in another year right, maybe by the time you get out of college you will be ready. smile
I hope the best for you.
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sweety_honey Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 8:29 pm
Celebra Wow that is a big decision.
I don't know everyone is diffrient.
For me I don't think I want another one I only have one daughter who just turned 11. I know it's bad but I love my freedom.
I had to watch a 2 year old still in diapers this past week and it confermed for me I didn't want anymore right now.
Dosn't meen in the future I won't possibly think about it tho.
If your thinking about then that's cool and you said in another year right, maybe by the time you get out of college you will be ready. smile
I hope the best for you. Thanks for your thoughts, but I think that we are already past wanting another one... *LOL~
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Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 3:21 pm
confused oh now I'm confused.. so do you want another one or not?
(I'd say go for it, but there again thats just me, probably because we can't have anymore crying )
Anyway, by the sounds of it, you've kinda got your hands full at the mo anyway havn't you, so maybe in another year you may feel differently?
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Posted: Sun May 25, 2008 8:58 pm
well the decision is still up for grabs right now. me personally, i wouldnt mind having my own child but being that im already going to have to teach the girls how to do things their own dad never bothered too plus raising riley and coaching... oh and going to be going back to work full time on top of all that... having another one at this point is going to be too much. of course if she gets pregnant by accident....
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 12:19 am
Heen-san well the decision is still up for grabs right now. me personally, i wouldnt mind having my own child but being that im already going to have to teach the girls how to do things their own dad never bothered too plus raising riley and coaching... oh and going to be going back to work full time on top of all that... having another one at this point is going to be too much. of course if she gets pregnant by accident.... well if you have an accidental little miracle, i think you would find a way to cope, and SH would get maternity wink
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Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 9:38 am
wow!!!that is a hard,im glad to hear yall moved the marriage up that will be good for yall!!!do you want another baby?I think another baby that would be a part of you and heen would be an awsome addittion to your already wonderfull family smile !!!!GOOD LUCK
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 12:12 pm
just make sure that you dont run out of steam before the last one is out of the house... thats what i think the only concern for me would be...
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