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 Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 11:53 pm
I'm engaged and pregnant. I love the guy but I dont think I'm ready for this. I'm 19. And I dont know what to do... I'm always so.... Unhappy.
I dont know what makes it come up but I'll just feel completely alone and useless... I used to be this way a lot, then I mostly dealt with it... Now it's me, not able to be happy again.
I dont want to be this way... I liked when I was on a long up swing... But that was before I got kicked outta school....
Ugh...
Maybe I'm just not supposed to be happy right now... My fiancee's 3 states away, I cant see him until he moves out here, he just graduated, and now he's just gotta be here..... But I dont want to let my hopes get all high again, and have it be like so many other times....
And I know it was never him who made it so I couldnt see him, it was my dad or his fam... Whatever, but now I just hate that it seems like he's choosing to stay in his comfort zone... I understand that, I do... But he's gotta see my side too...
Right?
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 9:21 pm
First off, you are amazing for being 19 and keeping your child.
These things are terrifying. The only thing you can realistically do is wait for him to come, and talk to him. Tell him you need his support and that you do not want to have to choose.
Communication is key.
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 8:04 am
I must agree. You are truly a special and amazing person for keeping your child in a day and age when most people take the easy way out. Congratulations on being strong enough to make that decision.
The only way your fiance could hope to understand what is going on with you, is if you communicate with him. He won't know unless you say something. Just try to do it gently and without getting angry at him. Nobody likes to be yelled at.
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Posted: Sat Aug 09, 2008 5:58 pm
First, I commend you for your strength for having a child when so many young women decide to take the easy, lazy way out. I hope your child will grow to realize how lucky he/she is for having such a loving, responsible mother.
Second, communication between your fiance and you is crucial. Tell this to your family and his, if they are trying to keep the two of you apart.
Tell them that communication is crucial not only for the sake of you and your fiance, but for the sake of your child.
Thirdly, as for your feelings, I suggest that you sort this out with a therapist or psychologist. Those feelings of unhappiness could very well be depression.
I hope this helps! Please PM me of you need anything else. smile
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