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Something has been errrr botherin me lols...

Helloooo Nurseeee

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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 1:51 pm

First off I'd like to say, this is my first post in the guild.
I've been here for about 4 months but busy with work and college.
If this is in the wrong place, I'm sorry.

I was into an arguement the otherday with girl friend of mine, it started off as a typical debate then it got ugly... Because well I'm stuborn lmao.

She says if you like strapon-sex that your prob bisexual...
I'm thinking wtf, if I like some penetration pleasure I'm not a lesbian?
Where did you get that info?

she's all, "Well if you like it so much, you should just be straight and get the real thing..."

So after arguing for a good 2hours about this I finally just said, okay your right you know more about my body than I do I'm bisexual -.-

But ofcourse I know that's bullshit because I hate man organs lmao...

So my question is I guess, do you think all strapon-sex lovers are bisexual and not lesbian deep down? confused

THIS TOPIC IS NOT MEANT TO GET OVERLY SEXUAL, IT'S JUST A QUESTION AND IT DOESN'T NEED DESCRIPTION.

Posted: Mon Jun 09, 2008 9:33 pm

Strapons and dildos are just silicone (or glass, plastic, etc.) devices used for pleasure. That's it.

They get political when you make them political. I know guys who like it when their girlfriends wear strapons and have a**l sex with them. Does that make these guys gay or bi? No, it just means that they like receiving a**l sex. They aren't gay because GIRLS wear the strapons.

Lesbians who like strapons just like penetration while their hands are free. If they like strapons for any other reasons, they are individual, personal opinions and have no effect on the rest of the lesbian population. If my girlfriend wore a strapon when we have sex, would that make me straight? No, because a GIRL is wearing a strapon.

There is more to sexuality than genitalia.

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Kuro the Wolf

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Posted: Sun Jun 22, 2008 6:35 pm

You know, I think sexuality doesn't always have to consist of sex. I know a girl who is bisexual, and doesn't like girl parts at all. She says she likes what's in their heart. You can't say that every straight person is gonna get married and have sex... it just doesn't happen. Being a lesbian shouldn't mean all you think about are boobs and v****a. It should mean more than that. 3nodding

Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 12:50 pm

Pretty straightforward, yes, you can be a lesbian and like penetration. I mean, there are tons of d***o's out there, and they're not just for being pretty in the store's shelves.

Personally, I don't like penetration at all, but that's a personal choice (I might like it when I do get a v****a, though, heheheh). And I can agree with Katie, on the note that strap-ons are easy to use if you want to keep your hands free to roam. wink

And "There is more to sexuality than genitalia." is totally true! biggrin

My 0.02..

Jess

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A-Vampires-Wish

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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:29 pm

I have totaly disagree with your friend. I mean, In my relation, my lover wears strapon and it doesn't mean that she's bi, because she is affraid of men. One can like it even if not bisexual.

Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 2:09 pm

Heh, 't seems we're all the on the same page here, perrty much, and the answer's kinda clear this way, I think.
Go us. lol

Jess

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Saapento No Naga

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Posted: Sat Jul 19, 2008 11:38 pm

As long as you are with the person you care about, and having the kind of sex you want, who cares? ^_^

Anyway, speaking medically, the v****a was meant to be penetrated, so it stands to reason that at least some lesbians would like sex with penetration, be it with fingers, tongues, dildoes, or whatever else works for you.

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