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 Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 5:33 am
Asalamu'alaykum!
Today i got in fight again... It was at school, someone totally harrashed me. And at last he punched the table in my stomack(diden't hurt, but i was close to fall off the chair), and he putted some disqustting stings at my food(it was cooking time).
Soo i went to him and boxxed like 10 times in his back, and then he got stunned and the teacher talked with us.
I warren't really sad about i hit him, but i was just scared if anything happend to him, cause he was totally stunned after i hit him sweatdrop
Nothing dangerous happend to him, but i had a conversation with the leader of the school. And weird enugh they told me how stupid it was to swear rolleyes I'm sorry that i called him idiot... But else i diden't really swear...
He sweared to much much much much more rolleyes
I was wonderring what i should do instead?
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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 7:56 am
i honestly don't blame you for getting in that scuffle, but impossible as it may seem, just ignore the guy. Tell him loudly to back off and leave you alone. Sometimes how you say it will also deter him like saying loudly "STOP TOUCHING ME" will usually humiliate him and prevent him from further contact.
But every time you react, particularly by fighting, he's going to keep on doing it like a little kid. Unless you beat the s**t out of him and scare him to death, he will continue to harass you.
Annoying as it sounds, you need to talk to a teacher about it and find the root cause of the problem (as in, why is he harassing you?). If it's really bad, then you could probably get a restraining order...though I'm not sure how things work in Denmark.
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dark__sunshin Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 8:55 am
I Dunno much abt the viollence but i guess if someone hit u or said anything bad to u espicially about Islam!! u Must give him/her what he really deserves .. or else he's gonna think that ur week and keeps getting on you!! so what u did was okay! but i guess u over hit him! and hitting him on the back is not really brave! if u wanna hit .. hit infront of his eyes!!
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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 12:21 pm
before i say something else i do like to say that "i know you don't like to be childish ever since you said you don't like cartoons rofl so now when you did that act of punching in the act that surely proved that you are just 7 year old child"
so when he does that next time do the way ratri told you and DO NOT HURT ANY BODY and also place in mind what dark__sunshine told you...
but the last part of ratri o.O
em confyused...!!
well he just likes it coz you react like a baby crying coz he has lost his moma...
and why i know it..??
is because i used to do it with my cousin sweatdrop
when i was 9 stressed
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Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 5:42 pm
ok.....ratri is right..just ignore him...the better i after he done that stuff just smile...you smile n sabar......thats it...and thats all....dont put yourself in hatred n revenge.....no use...believe me....even he come to a point.."cross the line" just sabar n smile..remember keep sabar n smile n pray to godfor his protection...........believe me...you will be on the winning side smile
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 6:08 am
dark__sunshin I Dunno much abt the viollence but i guess if someone hit u or said anything bad to u espicially about Islam!! u Must give him/her what he really deserves .. or else he's gonna think that ur week and keeps getting on you!! so what u did was okay! but i guess u over hit him! and hitting him on the back is not really brave! if u wanna hit .. hit infront of his eyes!! He's pretty stupid, soo he show his back. He also knew that i was gonna beat him, soo he showed his back wink The problem is solved 3nodding My parrents also tock it nicely when i said that i beat him soo he whill not harrash me again. And it worked, cause today he diden't even talk to me wink
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 6:11 am
tassan before i say something else i do like to say that "i know you don't like to be childish ever since you said you don't like cartoons rofl so now when you did that act of punching in the act that surely proved that you are just 7 year old child" so when he does that next time do the way ratri told you and DO NOT HURT ANY BODY and also place in mind what dark__sunshine told you... but the last part of ratri o.O em confyused...!! well he just likes it coz you react like a baby crying coz he has lost his moma... and why i know it..?? is because i used to do it with my cousin sweatdrop when i was 9 stressed I don't think he is rachist, i just think he is stupid... He anyway always skip the leassons by saying he go to toilet, and then he go out and talk with his friends for like a hour lol
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 6:13 am
Ratri_Cat i honestly don't blame you for getting in that scuffle, but impossible as it may seem, just ignore the guy. Tell him loudly to back off and leave you alone. Sometimes how you say it will also deter him like saying loudly "STOP TOUCHING ME" will usually humiliate him and prevent him from further contact.
But every time you react, particularly by fighting, he's going to keep on doing it like a little kid. Unless you beat the s**t out of him and scare him to death, he will continue to harass you.
Annoying as it sounds, you need to talk to a teacher about it and find the root cause of the problem (as in, why is he harassing you?). If it's really bad, then you could probably get a restraining order...though I'm not sure how things work in Denmark.
I agree 3nodding I just don't think it's possible to hummiliate him lol He hummiliate himself soo much! You get laugh of it rofl rofl
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2008 6:20 am
XeroRyn ok.....ratri is right..just ignore him...the better i after he done that stuff just smile...you smile n sabar......thats it...and thats all....dont put yourself in hatred n revenge.....no use...believe me....even he come to a point.."cross the line" just sabar n smile..remember keep sabar n smile n pray to godfor his protection...........believe me...you will be on the winning side smile No, he whill not be at the winning side... The teachers just get mad at me... they wasted like ½hour talking with me rolleyes And i beatted "THE s**t OUTTA HIM" wich was it all worth... And nothing dangerous happend to him... I just enjoyed it, it's funnyer to hit at him, than the boxxing thingy lol Now he don't even talk to me. And i can sure you that next time he annoy me, i whill scare him to say sorry. My right hand is strong, my left hand scares myself. lol
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Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2008 5:07 am
Zaaki XeroRyn ok.....ratri is right..just ignore him...the better i after he done that stuff just smile...you smile n sabar......thats it...and thats all....dont put yourself in hatred n revenge.....no use...believe me....even he come to a point.."cross the line" just sabar n smile..remember keep sabar n smile n pray to godfor his protection...........believe me...you will be on the winning side smile No, he whill not be at the winning side... The teachers just get mad at me... they wasted like ½hour talking with me rolleyes And i beatted "THE s**t OUTTA HIM" wich was it all worth... And nothing dangerous happend to him... I just enjoyed it, it's funnyer to hit at him, than the boxxing thingy lol Now he don't even talk to me. And i can sure you that next time he annoy me, i whill scare him to say sorry. My right hand is strong, my left hand scares myself. lol in pakistan they get {restigated} if they fight... i wish if that happend with you pirate rofl
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Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2008 5:45 am
tassan Zaaki XeroRyn ok.....ratri is right..just ignore him...the better i after he done that stuff just smile...you smile n sabar......thats it...and thats all....dont put yourself in hatred n revenge.....no use...believe me....even he come to a point.."cross the line" just sabar n smile..remember keep sabar n smile n pray to godfor his protection...........believe me...you will be on the winning side smile No, he whill not be at the winning side... The teachers just get mad at me... they wasted like ½hour talking with me rolleyes And i beatted "THE s**t OUTTA HIM" wich was it all worth... And nothing dangerous happend to him... I just enjoyed it, it's funnyer to hit at him, than the boxxing thingy lol Now he don't even talk to me. And i can sure you that next time he annoy me, i whill scare him to say sorry. My right hand is strong, my left hand scares myself. lol in pakistan they get {restigated} if they fight... i wish if that happend with you pirate rofl LØL i dunno why im telling but i had the coolest math teacher in world. There was this racist, that i talked about in the "A Situation" topic. The teacher nerly always got mad at him, and there was this big math thingy that he used to blow in the racist's table lol It broke 2 times rofl LOL he only stayed in the school for like 4 months rofl But he was a good math teacher though wink In Denmark they only talk to the parrents in phone rolleyes The techers told me they was proberly gonna phone my parrents, but they diden't do it smile And anyway, my parrents tock it pretty nicely. They just asked a few questions wink
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Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2008 7:57 am
Zaaki tassan Zaaki XeroRyn ok.....ratri is right..just ignore him...the better i after he done that stuff just smile...you smile n sabar......thats it...and thats all....dont put yourself in hatred n revenge.....no use...believe me....even he come to a point.."cross the line" just sabar n smile..remember keep sabar n smile n pray to godfor his protection...........believe me...you will be on the winning side smile No, he whill not be at the winning side... The teachers just get mad at me... they wasted like ½hour talking with me rolleyes And i beatted "THE s**t OUTTA HIM" wich was it all worth... And nothing dangerous happend to him... I just enjoyed it, it's funnyer to hit at him, than the boxxing thingy lol Now he don't even talk to me. And i can sure you that next time he annoy me, i whill scare him to say sorry. My right hand is strong, my left hand scares myself. lol in pakistan they get {restigated} if they fight... i wish if that happend with you pirate rofl LØL i dunno why im telling but i had the coolest math teacher in world. There was this racist, that i talked about in the "A Situation" topic. The teacher nerly always got mad at him, and there was this big math thingy that he used to blow in the racist's table lol It broke 2 times rofl LOL he only stayed in the school for like 4 months rofl But he was a good math teacher though wink In Denmark they only talk to the parrents in phone rolleyes The techers told me they was proberly gonna phone my parrents, but they diden't do it smile And anyway, my parrents tock it pretty nicely. They just asked a few questions wink they asked questions from whom??
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Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2008 9:10 pm
Zaaki XeroRyn ok.....ratri is right..just ignore him...the better i after he done that stuff just smile...you smile n sabar......thats it...and thats all....dont put yourself in hatred n revenge.....no use...believe me....even he come to a point.."cross the line" just sabar n smile..remember keep sabar n smile n pray to godfor his protection...........believe me...you will be on the winning side smile No, he whill not be at the winning side... The teachers just get mad at me... they wasted like ½hour talking with me rolleyes And i beatted "THE s**t OUTTA HIM" wich was it all worth... And nothing dangerous happend to him... I just enjoyed it, it's funnyer to hit at him, than the boxxing thingy lol Now he don't even talk to me. And i can sure you that next time he annoy me, i whill scare him to say sorry. My right hand is strong, my left hand scares myself. lol the problems with world today...all must be ended with violence??? war?? that what you want?? you thought it is a small matter but this kind of attitude generates even more of violence n seeds in younger minds today that what you want to show as a muslim?? to result into violence rather than peaceful concept?? if both side take violence as a conclusion no one will win this the sign of kiamat...everything wiill result in violence..is that what you want Zaaki???
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Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2008 9:12 pm
well what do want Zaaki...people treat you well becuse he/she SCARED of you or because he/she RESPECT you
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Posted: Sat Jun 14, 2008 1:29 am
XeroRyn well what do want Zaaki...people treat you well becuse he/she SCARED of you or because he/she RESPECT you << stare >> *stares at ZAAKi waiting for the answer *
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