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I know it sounds stupid but It really worries me, I HATE my f** boobs!! I hate my body soo much! I don't know what to do, I look myself at the mirror and I start to cry, thinking that no one will love me because I have small breasts. I have a B cup and I really, REALLY HATE IT I'm so obbsesed with the topic that fast all the people who knows me knows how obbsesed I am. I am afraid of surgery because many friends told me they will leave me if I get implants, but I have no more hope!! I can't have big breasted friends because I get depressed about the topic all the time and I would cry right now again if I were in my house.

Oh sweetie, calm down. A B-cup isn't that small, it's pretty average actually. But also, you need to do what makes you feel right, sweetie. If you truly thing surgery or padding your bra every day will make you happy, then well you might as well try it. And if your friends really leave you for something so stupid, then they aren't real friends anyway. If you really want that route, i'll see if I can find some stuff on surgery and stuff like that. But first I need to know how old you are or at least a general age. Because surgery without parental consent below the age of 18, won't happen.

So that you hear it from a guy:

I suggest you do not get implants. As has been said by previous responders, it will get certain guys to like you for the wrong reasons. These are the guys you do not want to hang out with, the type of guys who are self-centered and don't think with their heads at all.

Otty-kun, that's the wrong reason to say that. Yes she shouldn't get implants but this is about herself, she shouldn't be basing her decision on what self-centered guys think. She should first realize that at her age she can't, wait until she is eighteen then decide what she wants to do. Not worry about what guys think, too many women worry about that and it traps them in an endless cycle of trying to please men. I guess I shouldn't talk though... I know I often think about doing that for my boyfriend xD Nevermind, I'll just shut up xD

gonk Goodness, B-cups are fine darling. They're average sized, and a lot of girls with A cups would probably love to have them. All sizes are fine, and again: it's not the breasts that make the women. But, do what makes you feel good. If your friends put you down because of size then they're not real friends are they? confused

First of all: if this is the biggest problem with your life, be happy!!

I'm only fourteen, and I'm a B as well, BUT I am also a MAJOR nerd and just moved to a new school. I had a boyfriend at my old school, and I had a new one here, But they both liked me because I was confident, smart, and didn't worry about how guys would see me or my chest.

You are smexy. You need to know you are and act like you are.

Be happy with who you are, or you'll only end up worrying yourself sick. *hug* heart

Amen sistaa!
i totally agree, guys crawl over me and i only have an a cup!

Oh,come on,it stinks to have large breasts! I'm 15 and I'm a C-ish D-ish cup and they started growing when I was about 10. My back hurt all the time and everybody was laughing at me because of my breasts. Then I started to try and hide them by staying humpbacked (I don't know if it's the right word,I found it on a dictionary) and now my breasts look really bad rolleyes (and now they're laughing at me because of the way my breasts look like,but at least they don't stand out through size xd ) So...I'd wish I switch breasts with you but I can't but I can give you an advice: if you really want a surgery then do it,but you'll soon want to make them smaller(yeah,be careful what you wish,it may come true),really.If you're not 18 yet,then I'm sure you'll be over it.
I hope you'll be ok and if your problem with your breasts gets worse go to a psychologist (it might help).