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I have seerious Issues about my body image. I have a B cup and I'm constantly hating it because I hate my bra size. Since last year I hate them and so far nothing could help me become more confident . I also feel veery ugly and that no boy likes me because of that. I hate my face and my boobs, I hate my chest, my arms, my legs, everything. I am soo obsessed with my bra size that I can look myself topless on the mirror for hours thinking how horrible they are. I want to have a surgery but i'm scared and many friends told me they'd leave me if I do so because they say I'll turn into a shallow b***h. I felt ugly my whole life and sometimes I want to kill myself.
I'll REALLY appreciate your opinion!please help me!
thanks~

Honey, please.
BIG BOOBS AREN'T THAT GREAT!
I'm not saying that because I'm small

I'm a C cup
and my mom is giving me crap about how my bras are too small for me and how I might need a D cup.
I can't fit into dresses sometimes simply because once the zipper in back needs to zip, my boobs won't let it.
one of my friends threw m&m's down my shirt once.
and -dumbest move ever- when I was wearing an extremely low cut shirt to school (it was a centimeter away from showing my bra and showed half the little space between my boobs) we were doing dress picking for the female royal court members
three dresses, three girls.
I wanted the blue dress, which they were fine with. But I couldn't zip it, for reasons already said.
so one of the other girls was like "oh, my dress doesn't even cover the chest and doesn't zip, so it should work for you" (it was this dark green skirt and this floral pattern 'top' that had a wannabe corset in front that covered the upper tummy but not the lower and was long and had these awesome sleeves)
so it worked
and when my teacher was announcing who all the royal court would be and she called me out from the hallway as the princess (the other two girls were the kings queen and mistress)
every guy I saw looked down at my chest.
so I was like "x/////////////x"
and after wards when I was leaving the classroom (sweater back on and dress back in teachers care until medieval day)
the teacher was like "Oh Sage, you make that dress really fun!"
and smirked at me (it wasn't creepy, 'cause the teacher is a chick and married)
so I was like ">< thanks..."
=/


Big boobs can be a massive confidence booster, they really can.
But they can also be a pain
big boobs:
-sag more
-if they get big enough, can cause back problems
-stretch marks
-come paired with a biggy tummy, bigger butt, and bigger thighs.

DON'T get a job done
things can go wrong.
and seriously, B cup is good.
just have a little pride in them
if you want your chest to look bigger, get a push up bra or a padded bra.
Or both xD
(My little sister is an A cup, she's 14, her bras help her look like a B cup.
which she's perfectly happy with.

Seriously, I had issues with my appearance too (still do actually, but not nearly as bad)

and while this may sound weird, it helped me, so it might help you =3
pretty undies and pretty bras
I started buying undies with lace and patterns and little things to make them prettier, and they seriously helped my confidence level.
My bras have lace on the straps and along the cup, that helps me with my confidence.

And
to finish this off.

getting a job done isn't being yourself, now is it?
To get the true love of your life, a boy who seriously cares for you, you shouldn't have to change something so unimportant in the grand scheme of things.

They are just boobs. EVERY girl has them... some boys too xp

But seriously. Boobs come in all shapes and all sizes. AND as long as they are some what proportional to your body then there is no reason for any kind of surgery. If you had an A cup and your band size was 30 you are fine, but if you band size was say... 44... then there might be some cause for having some kind of surgery... same works in reverse too... if you have like a DDD cup and your band size is like 30 you might want to have a reduction or suffer back problems later in life. But if your band size is 44 then the DDD cup actually balances out the way your body looks compared to your hips and waist line.

since you are saying that you have a B cup, your body traditionally says that your band size should be between 32 and 40 inches. If you fall into that size, please try to get it out of your head to have surgery, if you feel that guys wont like you because they are too small, then you should really be dating different guys. Women have enough problems to worry about and don't need the added stress of a guy dumping them because of their boobs. Guys can be stupid about things like that, and any guy who is stupid about something like that does not deserve attention from you.

gah... you are right... I checked out the myspace too... she is a cutie pie.

If anyone actually cares what you look like then they are shallow. I know it sounds mean but is your look really all you have? No it isn't because you are so worried you don't relize it doesn't matter what you look like. And hey you may not be beautiful in the popular groups way but you are very beautiful in YOUR way and the most beautiful you ever and be proud of that because in case you haven't noticed things go in and out as much as you breathe. Big boobs will be in for a few years and then it will be little and back and forth so you will be "in" at some point or another.

Point one. You can wear halter tops without your boobs popping out
Point two. You can wear a bikini without looking ridiculous
Point three. Some men are leg men and don't even care about the boobs
Point four. You are probably small framed and I am very jealous
Point five. You can go without a bra. Ahhhh. To go without a bra all day is a dream of mine.
Point six. You can maneuver your arms freely in front of you
Point seven. Reaching across the table doesn't cause a domino effect of falling items

sweety not every man like ballon boobies, they really dont. so dont let beer commercials make you think that way, but if you want them a little bigger and fuller naturally theres 3 ways

1.drink more milk

2.exisirise

3. when you shower, rubb them in a circular motion.

while it wont make them supersized, itll give a fuller nicer shape that beats haveing "funbags"


but if a man loves or doenst love you over your chest fat then i say dump him. real men love the soul not breasts