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 Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 2:04 pm
Hello everyone. I have found a man that loves me a lot and can handle my disorders...I didn't think that was possible for many years...we haven't known each other a month yet but his visits have been great and we have a lot in common it's so very exciting, I feel like a teenager again.
We're taking things slow but he's moving in this weekend...he wanted out of his city, didn't want to commute to see me the 4 hours it was taking, he's looking for work and I'm in a bigger city so he'll be my room-mate for a couple months until he gets on his feet...
This means I don't need a job which was really stressing me, he'll be paying me some cash for room and board and buying his own food and stuff.
It's a fast move, I know, I really think it's going to work out though, my kids are for it too...it just all sort of fell into place when I least expected it but I'm feeling really excited and positive about this.
Wish us luck! He's a real gentleman too, the kind of guy you think would be taken or gay LOL but he's mine for the taking, I feel very lucky. I have never had support form anyone in real life like this before, it's nice that he understands and is there for me.
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Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2008 9:10 pm
I am sooo happy for you! You deserve something positive in your life. I don't think that you are moving too fast if it feels right to you.
I met my husband for the first time August 17, was engaged January 19 and married March 31! And we have been married for 13 years. I wouldn't be here today without him and his support.
I am sooo happy for you!!!
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Posted: Thu Jun 26, 2008 12:35 pm
I'm so glad you have found someone that can accept you and understand you! Even though he is moving in already, you should still take things slow! I hate to be the devil's advocate, but he might be a gentleman now, but he might not be two months from now you know? And even though I only know you through this, I do care and worry about you, so just please be careful!
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 9:29 am
Thanks ...and don't worry I'm still taking it slow with him...if he turns out to be a jerk, he'll soon know where the door is LOL but I'm hoping that doesn't happen...so far so good and positive thinking from here. He's moving in TODAY actually - pushed it up from Sunday because today was just better for everyone...I'm nervous and excited all at once!
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 10:27 pm
*purrs* Well, I hope everything is peachy. mrgreen
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Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 10:11 am
Well so far so good! It's going to take a bit to get used to though...I was on my own a long time. I'm stressing in some ways but quite comfortable in others but I'm not into mood swings so not triggering me *knocks on wood* It's looking good and like it'll just get better as time goes by. My kids took to this whole thing well though - I was worried about that but they seem quite content too *whew*
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Posted: Sun Jun 29, 2008 1:02 pm
I am glad nothing has triggered you. I hope that you are happy and wish you all the luck in the world.
I know what being accepted for yourself and not your "others" means.
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Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2008 2:29 pm
I hope things continue to go well with this guy! It sounds like you deserve some real happiness in your life!
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