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 Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 6:22 pm
umm..... ya... my gf recently told me shes bi, and then she breaks up with me..... she says her parents didnt want her to date anyone "like me" but the fact is theres no one like me so im having issues with trust right now...but thats not the point....
how do i deal with someone who probably will never love u again because theyre slowly turning gay and ur the only one who wants to admit it and ur depressed because u want to do everything to be around that person but theres almost no way possible to and then u cant live without that person no matter wat they say and ur afraid everyone who said ur gonna be a stalker someday will be right and yes i do realize im ranting on multiple life issues at once even though they may not pertain to the subject at hand but i need help
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Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 8:22 pm
Uhm, Dude, calm down- take a deep breath and brethe! It will work out eventually. Love isn't blind but it has a tendancy to make those who feel that way blind to things that would otherwise bother them. Try and be honest with yourself about the relationship and the person. You don't want to hold on to something you were fooling yourself into thinking was perfect when it wasn't, I mean really... do you?
I don't know about the stalking thing, but I have plenty of expierience with people leaving me. Time has a way of making the hurt of love-lost fade. You have to just try and let it go and move on. Well you don't have too but I sugest that you do, stalking... that's not a road you really want to go down now is it?
If you're girlfriend left you and handed you a lame reason like her parents didn't approve... there was probably another reason, maybe she's struggling with some issues of her own, maybe she was trying to spare you're feelings and buy you off with that reason instead of the real one. Try talking to her, in a non-threatening, non-obsessed stalker-ish way and try and find out the real reason or at least some kind of further clarification.
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