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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 12:20 pm

the 1 girl i love with all my hart just broke up whith me cuz i lide to her about smokying and now she hates me.

i so stoopid !!!

i lide to her 3 times be for and she was gone berake up whith me i asked her for 1 more chans. and she gave me 1 more chans and i skrood it up.
and now she is all was in my head i cant stop thinking about it killing me.
iv have not sleped for the last 42 howers and ive bin cirying the how time crying i ciryd my self to sleep last nite crying its killing me i love her so much i whood do iny thang to git her back and im about to give up shes not ansering my calls iny more and i dont no what to do. so im trening to you to help me.

im such a rek i cant even spell

well iny whay my girl asked for your helpand this is what she asked you

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I was with him 7 years ago ... when he asked me to go out with him agian I gave him one condition ... He needed to stop smokeing ... I didn't say that he had to stop right away but that if he was going to continue that I wanted him to tell me when he was going to do it ... I told him that I can NOT date a smoker ... I just don't like it ~ never have ~ never will ... I also told him that I could only forgive ONE big lie

He lied to me about the reason that he wanted to go out with me ... and begged me not to break up with him then ... I told him that this was the one lie ... he can have his secrets but his secret can't be the smoking

So after I told his mom that I was happy with him not smoking ~ she told me that he had been smoking ... and he told me that he had been smoking the whole time ... just not as much as he had been.
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and now im asking you for help i dont no what to iv sed im sorry and now im asking you how do i git her back iv qite smoking 2 days befor she broke up whith me thats whin i had my last smoke and then she broke up whith me so i got stresed ans deprest and had just 1 more smoke but thats all iv bin clene for 41 hwores .

so i ask you can i git her back andif so how do i git her back

and if i cant git her back then how do i for give my self for braking her hart and then how do i git over her. crying crying

Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 3:54 pm

For one thing you can start telling me the TRUTH ... not all this crap that you've been saying ... and even more you can ~ not leave me messages about stealing your brother's car with a girl you've never met before and ending up in another city and got compleatly drunk

You could also try with telling the truth about how much you lied you said that it was 3 times when really it was just about eveything you told me

The main reason that this all hurts is because of how open and honest you asked me to be and how open and honest I was ... I only kept ONE thing from you and that was because I had promised someone that I would never tell ... and I even told you what it was involving just not who.

I can handel the smoking ... because that is something that you can aviod doing around me ... but your lying is a lifestyle for you ... and that can't be changed

I am very happy that you didn't smoke around me ... I'm also happy that you told me that you had cut back (even tho you origanally said that you hadn't had any) But I don't even think that I should even believe this.

WHERE DO YOUR LIES END?

KittenKattQueen

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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 8:56 pm

sorry dude you screwed it up. if you make a mistake and someone gives you a chance and you mess it up again do you honestly think that the person would give you another chance that easily? every chance you get you take it seriously. because if someone gave you a chance it means that you screwed up before. you don't lie because eventually those lies will be discovered. you are going to have to wait and see what happens, and start being responsible for your actions and honest.

Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 11:07 pm

I think you should talk to katt about it, and not with all of us. I know it sometimes hard to stand by your choises when you meet strong figure like Katt.
I belive you where trying to quit smoking and crack up in the way. I had a bf who smoke and knew i hated it and but he couldn't stop himself. He told me he would quit but, he never could do it, cuz it is hard to quit.
So mybe you should try to work the quit smoking slowly. ask katt to participate by buy you a small gift every day you don't smoke or something. If you do smoke tell poeple you trust, they would help you quit it.
Good Luck!

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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 11:33 pm

shani26

I think you should talk to katt about it, and not with all of us. I know it sometimes hard to stand by your choises when you meet strong figure like Katt.

yea! I'm a strong figure ... his way of talking about it was trying to rush me into talking knowing that I need to calm down before I talk about things ... then when I got calm ~ blowing me off.

If he would have told me about the smoking I would have been fine with it ~ a bit disapointed but not mad ...

Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 1:08 am

Katt Smith

shani26

I think you should talk to katt about it, and not with all of us. I know it sometimes hard to stand by your choises when you meet strong figure like Katt.

yea! I'm a strong figure ... his way of talking about it was trying to rush me into talking knowing that I need to calm down before I talk about things ... then when I got calm ~ blowing me off.

If he would have told me about the smoking I would have been fine with it ~ a bit disapointed but not mad ...

Katt want to go to a spa togther i think we both need to relax a bit, take things easy.
Me with my work issues and exams, and you with your boyfriend.

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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 9:44 am

shani26

Katt Smith

shani26

I think you should talk to katt about it, and not with all of us. I know it sometimes hard to stand by your choises when you meet strong figure like Katt.

yea! I'm a strong figure ... his way of talking about it was trying to rush me into talking knowing that I need to calm down before I talk about things ... then when I got calm ~ blowing me off.

If he would have told me about the smoking I would have been fine with it ~ a bit disapointed but not mad ...

Katt want to go to a spa togther i think we both need to relax a bit, take things easy.
Me with my work issues and exams, and you with your boyfriend.

relax ... what a consept ... my life doesn't really provide much time to be able to relax

Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 3:35 am

got to love me girl

the 1 girl i love with all my hart just broke up whith me cuz i lide to her about smokying and now she hates me.

i so stoopid !!!

i lide to her 3 times be for and she was gone berake up whith me i asked her for 1 more chans. and she gave me 1 more chans and i skrood it up.
and now she is all was in my head i cant stop thinking about it killing me.
iv have not sleped for the last 42 howers and ive bin cirying the how time crying i ciryd my self to sleep last nite crying its killing me i love her so much i whood do iny thang to git her back and im about to give up shes not ansering my calls iny more and i dont no what to do. so im trening to you to help me.

im such a rek i cant even spell

well iny whay my girl asked for your helpand this is what she asked you

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((
I was with him 7 years ago ... when he asked me to go out with him agian I gave him one condition ... He needed to stop smokeing ... I didn't say that he had to stop right away but that if he was going to continue that I wanted him to tell me when he was going to do it ... I told him that I can NOT date a smoker ... I just don't like it ~ never have ~ never will ... I also told him that I could only forgive ONE big lie

He lied to me about the reason that he wanted to go out with me ... and begged me not to break up with him then ... I told him that this was the one lie ... he can have his secrets but his secret can't be the smoking

So after I told his mom that I was happy with him not smoking ~ she told me that he had been smoking ... and he told me that he had been smoking the whole time ... just not as much as he had been.
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and now im asking you for help i dont no what to iv sed im sorry and now im asking you how do i git her back iv qite smoking 2 days befor she broke up whith me thats whin i had my last smoke and then she broke up whith me so i got stresed ans deprest and had just 1 more smoke but thats all iv bin clene for 41 hwores .

so i ask you can i git her back andif so how do i git her back

and if i cant git her back then how do i for give my self for braking her hart and then how do i git over her. crying crying

u must REALLY like her to be soo sad like this..
hmm..wht i think u should do is stop smoking and proove to her
tht u CAN change and THEN u ask her to be with u again..
whts the worst case scenario ..?
she dnt wnt u back but atleast ur nt smoking anymore..

srry fr the crappy advice..too blank

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Posted: Mon Dec 29, 2008 2:20 pm

the main root of the problem is smoking... stop smoking not abruptly but slowly with all ur willingness and sincerity. if u really wanna stop have some substitute of cigar like candies...if u crave for cigar take 1 candy instead.and always remember ur doing it not just for ur gf but also for ur health.u can't take her back that soon maybe coz u have hurt her w/ all ur lies but just like quitting in smoking slowly u can be a friend to her and show her what have changed in ur lifestyle since she left u.coz if u have changed u dnt have to shout it to the whole world but people would just noticed it from u.

Posted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 8:58 am

why u asking us tell me if i is crazy but i think u should ask her what it would take to get her back

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