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 Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 1:42 pm
since my parents decided to "separate" (last year) i dont know my mom is like freaking me out, my permissions have reduced, my punishments increased, i feel like my sister got heart and i got domokun , my mom shouts to me everyday since 5 or 6 months ago, because of nothing!! gonk
when she is with her friends and i come to house and ready to say hello with my best mood she stared at me like he wanted to kill me with her eyes burning_eyes so i went to my bedroom as fast as i could
i dunno why... confused
any tips??? or something i could do??
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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 3:59 pm
It could be because she is associating you with your dad (because your both guys)
I agree with the running to your room ... when most women get upset with the main guy in their lives they get mad at all men ... most of the time without realizeing it.
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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 7:01 pm
wow never though it thanks now i know why she is like that
(even if this looks sarcastic it isn´t i really wanted to know why my mom act like that)
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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 7:51 pm
It may not be the reason she is ... but it is the reason for most
ex. I broke up with my bf for something he did ... now I start to see some of what he did in other guys in my life ... then on looking back at what happened I noticed that they wern't doing the same thing
You may want to ask her what's up. ... be prepared to run but asking is the best way to find out
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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 8:47 pm
I agree. since you are a guy you probably remind her of your father and all of that anger that suppressed anger that she has for him gets taken out on you. it sounds wrong but that's what i think of the situation. for now your just going to have to bear with her and try to avoid contact. follow her rules and you will be fine.
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Posted: Fri Jul 04, 2008 11:20 pm
I think you should talk to her about it, next time she scream tell her in a calm voice you are going to listen to her only if she talk to you in a calm voice. that work with my mom and other to emotinal people in my life. even a baby who understand litlle hebrew.
I don't know what her reason to be angery, but what ever it is, you don't have to take it.
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Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 11:43 pm
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 3:25 am
eduardk250 since my parents decided to "separate" (last year) i dont know my mom is like freaking me out, my permissions have reduced, my punishments increased, i feel like my sister got heart and i got domokun , my mom shouts to me everyday since 5 or 6 months ago, because of nothing!! gonk when she is with her friends and i come to house and ready to say hello with my best mood she stared at me like he wanted to kill me with her eyes burning_eyes so i went to my bedroom as fast as i could i dunno why... confused any tips??? or something i could do??
this problems with my mom before..
it just need sme time..shes
probally a little stressed out on
her r/ship with ur dad..but she'll
realise tht she had nt treaten u
equally as ur sis and then she'll apologise to
u.. OR
she feels like shes more cmfortable with ur sis
since their the same gender && feels like
u r like ur dad..
srry fr crappy advice..too blank=(
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Posted: Sat Jul 12, 2008 9:59 pm
hey...
it's not crappy at all...
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Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 9:20 am
Maxx Wintz eduardk250 since my parents decided to "separate" (last year) i dont know my mom is like freaking me out, my permissions have reduced, my punishments increased, i feel like my sister got heart and i got domokun , my mom shouts to me everyday since 5 or 6 months ago, because of nothing!! gonk when she is with her friends and i come to house and ready to say hello with my best mood she stared at me like he wanted to kill me with her eyes burning_eyes so i went to my bedroom as fast as i could i dunno why... confused any tips??? or something i could do??
this problems with my mom before..
it just need sme time..shes
probally a little stressed out on
her r/ship with ur dad..but she'll
realise tht she had nt treaten u
equally as ur sis and then she'll apologise to
u.. OR
she feels like shes more cmfortable with ur sis
since their the same gender && feels like
u r like ur dad..
srry fr crappy advice..too blank=(Yep it isn't crappy
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 10:26 pm
i tried to talk with her but she start acting like i dunno diferent, she looks at me but its like scream , then se stands up and go to her room dunno why anyway thnks i think it helped a little now my mom dont scream every time just mostly of the time mrgreen
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Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 9:29 pm
Well, my mom used to put me outside all day, everyday, sometimes even in the rain. When my parents separated, she never contacted me. When we do talk, she always talks about how horrible my dad and his family are and that I'm just like him. She doesn't get me anything on my birthday, let alone call. Even on Christmas, I've never gotten as much as a phone call from her.
So because your mom is punishing you doesn't mean she hates you. At least you're getting her attention. So try talking to the woman instead of assuming your relationship is nothing.
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 9:20 pm
ok then i will change my title to
jeez, think that my mom doesnt loves me like i would like
is that good?
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 9:22 pm
anyway for the ones who really helped me thanks mrgreen
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Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 5:50 am
Your welcome, did your mom get back on her feet and treating you better now?
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