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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:17 pm
I've been a christian ever since i was 7. I love God very much, but there are things i dont understand. I've asked God into my heart, i believe Jesus died for my sins and rose from the grave. I believe that if you sin, you ask forgivness, but your not supost to go around sinning just caus you can and you can ask forgivness later. I believe you must try your hardest not to sin, and most of the time you dont even want to sin, but we are tempted. But we all mess up. When we do, we dust ourselves off, ask for forgivness and try again. I know all of that. But something scares me. A couple months ago, i got caught up into a rought addiction. It lasted several months, about 8. I had an issue with cutting. (i've been clean for about 4 months now =) ) but its still hard. But i have a question. If you are a christian and you cut, will you go to hell? Yes, its a sin and you know your sinning...but if you just give up and stop trying. Still pray to God, still try your best not to sin, but if you continue to cut, will you go to hell? A friend of mine said that if you sin knowing your sinning and keep on doing it, you'll go to hell. Idk what to think. theres truth to it. i know you cant just sin caus you know God will forgive you later. But something thats hard to put down, like cutting, or drugs and all of that. If your a christian and cut, will you go to hell? I'm scared. i'm not cutting anymore, so thats not why i'm scared, but i'm scared because all i can see now is God throwing people in hell. i'm SCARED. Why would God throw a christian in hell because they cut? its the same as smoking, your harming your body, but i dont believe God would send someone who smokes to hell. I'm very confussed. can someone please tell me?
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:25 pm
Your friend isn't very wise... Sure, cutting is a sin, and you knew you were sinning, but that doesn't mean G-d will send you to Hell. Yeshua(Jesus) died for you sins, and if you believe in Him and follow him, you're saved. I'm glad to hear you've stopped, that's amazing. I was a cutter myself, a bit more recently than 4 months, and I know it can be hard to quit. I'll be praying for you, both that you stay clean and that you see how much He loves you and that He will save you.
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:27 pm
If i continued though, would God send me to hell for that? how is that fair? I dont believe that God would send a smoker to hell. but a sin is a sin, how does that separate the fact that its a SIN. i mean the bible says that all sins are equal correct? so if i cut its just like cussing, lying, killing ext. so, why wouldnt God send me to hell..
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:39 pm
Laid_black_rose If i continued though, would God send me to hell for that? how is that fair? I dont believe that God would send a smoker to hell. but a sin is a sin, how does that separate the fact that its a SIN. i mean the bible says that all sins are equal correct? so if i cut its just like cussing, lying, killing ext. so, why wouldnt God send me to hell.. God will know of your struggle with this issue and His Spirit will be with you through it. Simply put, He would rather work through this with you as you build up your relationship with Him rather than punish you.
Trust in Jesus' promise. Jesus promised that all sins will be forgiven men. Jesus is that forgiveness and he is always open to you.
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:50 pm
I cant see that anymore though. I believe in God, and He's in my heart, but everytime i get to thinking too much, i get scared of him. I just see him as a condeming God. like idk.
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:53 pm
Laid_black_rose I cant see that anymore though. I believe in God, and He's in my heart, but everytime i get to thinking too much, i get scared of him. I just see him as a condeming God. like idk. Do you believe in Jesus and trust his word?
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 4:58 pm
Priestley Laid_black_rose I cant see that anymore though. I believe in God, and He's in my heart, but everytime i get to thinking too much, i get scared of him. I just see him as a condeming God. like idk. Do you believe in Jesus and trust his word?yes.
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:10 pm
Laid_black_rose Priestley Laid_black_rose I cant see that anymore though. I believe in God, and He's in my heart, but everytime i get to thinking too much, i get scared of him. I just see him as a condeming God. like idk. Do you believe in Jesus and trust his word?yes. Then it isn't God who is making you fear Him, it's the enemy lying to you and trying to convince you that you're not worthy of the gift that Jesus has given you. Draw close to Jesus. smile
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:17 pm
Priestley Laid_black_rose Priestley Laid_black_rose I cant see that anymore though. I believe in God, and He's in my heart, but everytime i get to thinking too much, i get scared of him. I just see him as a condeming God. like idk. Do you believe in Jesus and trust his word?yes. Then it isn't God who is making you fear Him, it's the enemy lying to you and trying to convince you that you're not worthy of the gift that Jesus has given you. Draw close to Jesus. smile =) i will. tell me though. i know what the bible says, but i'd like to hear it again. what causes a person to go to Hell?
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 5:44 pm
Laid_black_rose Priestley Laid_black_rose Priestley Laid_black_rose I cant see that anymore though. I believe in God, and He's in my heart, but everytime i get to thinking too much, i get scared of him. I just see him as a condeming God. like idk. Do you believe in Jesus and trust his word?yes. Then it isn't God who is making you fear Him, it's the enemy lying to you and trying to convince you that you're not worthy of the gift that Jesus has given you. Draw close to Jesus. smile =) i will. tell me though. i know what the bible says, but i'd like to hear it again. what causes a person to go to Hell? Not believing in Jesus as the son of God and your savior. If you really truly believe that, then you're going to heaven. Simple as that. Your heart is in the right place, and God knows that.
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 2:14 pm
God loves you. You have accepted Him into your heart, and that is the most important thing. If you are saved, there is nothing that can take that away from you. Take a look at Romans 8:38-39:Romans 8:38-39 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Nothing will ever take you away from being a child of God, adopted into His family through the blood of Jesus Christ. Unless you outright deny and blaspheme against the Spirit, your salvation and your place by Jesus' side in Heaven is secure. Your name has been written into His book of life, and it is there for eternity. When Satan comes and tempts you into thinking that God doesn't want you, that He would rather send you to Hell than have you, you rebuke him in the name of our King, and you remind the Enemy that Jesus wanted you so bad that He died so He could have you with Him. You tell the Enemy that if he wants you that badly, he'll have to do the same. I guarantee he won't.
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 2:30 pm
Twice in one day, I'm going to quote my favorite, and in my opinion, the most comforting verse I've found in the Bible:Quote: "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him,[a] who have been called according to his purpose."-Romans 8:28 God loves you unlike any love you've seen. He loves you unconditionally, no matter what you do. He wants to save you, and he will save you. You just have to trust in him and the cutting will stop. You will be in my prayers, and I'm going to recommend you listen to the song "The Last Night" by Skillet. It's sorta about your predicament. Here is the link to the song.
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 2:51 pm
Oh yeah, that song does kinda pertain. eek Skillet rocks my world, yo. I had whiplash for three days after seeing them in concert a few weeks ago. >D
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 3:05 pm
Oooh, you also have to watch the Everything Skit, by Lifehouse. That will definitely make you feel better. Every time I feel like temptation is weighing me down, I only have to watch that, and it kinda frees me.
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Posted: Sun Jul 27, 2008 4:31 pm
Try going to an As I Lay Dying concert. Someone broke his leg crowd surfing.
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