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Teh -Moon Maiden-

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Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 12:47 pm

I have some of the best friends in the world in my oppinion,and I've known some of them for 5 years come August.But ever since I decided I was NOT going to drop the guy I totally fell in love with after he said he didn't feel the same,they got really P.O.
I mean,it's not like I am going to be trailing after him everywhere he goes,but I mean,after everything that happened...
I can't do it.
And I have this gut feeling NOT to drop him.
And everytime I get that feeling it turns out to be the right thing that I should've done.
Why can't my friends lay off and get off my back,and respect my decision and STOP TRYING TO HOOK ME UP WITH ALL THESE OTHER GUYS?!?!?!?!

Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 2:08 pm

You shouldn't take it so hard on your friends, they're only trying to help. While you may feel like you're doing what's best by staying with him, they might feel like they're doing what's best by telling you not to stay with him. I'm not saying you're right and I'm not saying your friends are, I'm just saying to take into account that they are only trying to support you.

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Teh -Moon Maiden-

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Posted: Wed Jul 16, 2008 3:18 pm

Otfee

You shouldn't take it so hard on your friends, they're only trying to help. While you may feel like you're doing what's best by staying with him, they might feel like they're doing what's best by telling you not to stay with him. I'm not saying you're right and I'm not saying your friends are, I'm just saying to take into account that they are only trying to support you.

I know and I appriciate it to an extent...
But I've told them,"Guys,I'm staying with him,could ya'll please just let me be.".
While some of them (most of them) are all,"Go for it,your life." others are all trying to hook me up with other guys,and it really can get annoying.
And are bashing him and that really pushes my buttons.
He's not a bad guy,and I'm not mentally insain.
and they can't seem to come to grips with one or the other...

Posted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 6:36 pm

I have to admit on some issues I am the pushy best friend, but as far as that goes, I say stick with your gut feeling. Tell them how much they're bugging you, and if they don't stop start learning how to change topics fast. Try to remember they mean the best. If you do end up being hurt, make sure they don't do the "I told you so" thing, that's just rubbing salt in the wound, But if your intuition is right, you shouldn't need to worry about that.

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