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 Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 5:45 pm
okay, my friend called me and asked me. "Is it okay to like more than 5 guys?" I knew she liked probably 5 guys or more, but I didn't answer her back. I haven't thought of anything! What should I do?!!?
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Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 9:17 pm
Panda-Sanity okay, my friend called me and asked me. "Is it okay to like more than 5 guys?" I knew she liked probably 5 guys or more, but I didn't answer her back. I haven't thought of anything! What should I do?!!? Tell her how u feel. If it were me, I'd say "I don't think so, b/c i think love is sacred and should only be shared between two ppl" That's only my opinion on the subject, tell her yours.
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Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2008 11:32 pm
She'll grow out of it, or find a compromise.
So just ask if she's sure it's love.
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 10:07 am
Panda-Sanity okay, my friend called me and asked me. "Is it okay to like more than 5 guys?" I knew she liked probably 5 guys or more, but I didn't answer her back. I haven't thought of anything! What should I do?!!?
Well she's probably a little young to be making a decision about that but maybe she's poly amorous? Personally myself I wouldn't be but I've had some great friends who are, though the key to it is to make sure everyone in it knows and is consensual. The minute it's not consensual to someone, it ceases to work. At least this is what my friends have told me, I really wouldn't know how someone that felt that way would feel. I'd just try to be supportive and at the same time explain just how hard it would be if she did do this, but if she had her heart set on it, I'd just let her know that no matter what she's still my friend ^^
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Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 2:23 pm
Bethhy Says:
I belive you cannot love more than one person.
Although I do understand when bisexuals have a relationship with both a man and a woman, because both are quite different relationships.
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Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 12:52 pm
I believe it is possible to fall in love with more than one person. However, most of the time, that's not what happening. It's usually a case of the indivual not really understanding their own feelings.
Particularly, but not exclusive to, young people (as if I'm all that old) mistake any fondness or infatuation for a fairy tale love story. Everyone always thinks their love is the real thing, until they find someone they like more, then that love is the real thing, etc.
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Posted: Mon Nov 24, 2008 6:28 pm
Well, liking five guys, loving five guys, and dating five guys each have their own answers.
I know plenty of girls who say they are crushing on and mabey even love several people, but it's really just a stage, and I'd even say it's kinda natural to be torn like that, so long as she focuses as soon as she starts going out with one of them. Guys ARE sensitive, and it'd kill them if they say their girl staring star-struck at another boy.
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Posted: Mon Mar 16, 2009 1:31 pm
polyamory, you mean?
as long as all parties consent to it.
also, i have a feeling your friend is confusing love with lust.
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Posted: Wed May 06, 2009 4:50 pm
Lil Cutie Cubana Panda-Sanity okay, my friend called me and asked me. "Is it okay to like more than 5 guys?" I knew she liked probably 5 guys or more, but I didn't answer her back. I haven't thought of anything! What should I do?!!? Tell her how u feel. If it were me, I'd say "I don't think so, b/c i think love is sacred and should only be shared between two ppl" That's only my opinion on the subject, tell her yours. Okay, LOVE more than 5 boys, No. Have a CRUSH on more than 5 boys, that's Okay.
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