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 Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2008 5:47 pm
I'm seriously at a loss as to what to do right now. You see there's this girl that like REALLY really likes me, but I'm just not attracted to her, but she doesn't seem to get it. I mean recently she did something VERY bad, but I forgave her. And just today I went downstairs and there is this beautiful bouquet of flowers, I was wondering if maybe Brandon my boyfriend had sent them ^^ But then she tells me she sent them, and was hoping she had been the first one to ever send flowers to me, and well she is... it was a really sweet gesture, but... what do I do now? I don't like her like that, and now it seems like I have to say something, please help me what would you other girls do in this situation? crying
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 3:08 pm
Guidance comes internally, from your conscience. Seek to do whatever makes your conscience feel better.
My suggestion: If your conscience tells her that you don't like her, then explain to her, delicately of course, that you don't like her like that. If you desire, tell her you seek to maintain a friendship, but nothing more. She may cry and weep, but what other choice do you have? You can't lie to her, that would be wrong both to her and yourself. You obviously don't desire to hurt her feelings, but regardless, it will have to end that way unless she is understanding.
It won't make you a bad person if you hurt her feelings by telling her that you don't like her like that, trust me. It will only make you a bad person if you lie to her and tell her you do. She put you in the situation, she took the risk of having her feelings hurt, it's her fault if they are.
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Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 4:39 pm
Otfee Guidance comes internally, from your conscience. Seek to do whatever makes your conscience feel better. My suggestion: If your conscience tells her that you don't like her, then explain to her, delicately of course, that you don't like her like that. If you desire, tell her you seek to maintain a friendship, but nothing more. She may cry and weep, but what other choice do you have? You can't lie to her, that would be wrong both to her and yourself. You obviously don't desire to hurt her feelings, but regardless, it will have to end that way unless she is understanding. It won't make you a bad person if you hurt her feelings by telling her that you don't like her like that, trust me. It will only make you a bad person if you lie to her and tell her you do. She put you in the situation, she took the risk of having her feelings hurt, it's her fault if they are.
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